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BritishGentleman

Masterbation and the Sex-Repulsed/Aversed

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Nowhere Girl

As I've already written: I'm definitely sex-averse, but I pleasure myself sometimes. It's not as distressing as for you, but definitely frustrating to some degree - particularly because my sex aversion increases to sex repulsion after an orgasm.

Some sex-averse/repulsed aces may have a libido, be autochorissexual, pleasure themselves... Some may even have sex, but I would of course advise any sex-averse/repulsed person against it - shame on the society which pushes people to do things they are very uncomfortable with in the vain hope that it will make them "normal".

It's not worth it.

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EggplantWitch

A lot of my sex repulsion relates to bodily fluids and having something (anything) jammed into a very sensitive part of my body. So masturbation kind of dodges the repulsion a little - no fluids, and nothing needs to be inserted, so while it is still kind of gross it's in the same way urinating is. It's not something I enjoy, but it's not something I hate either. It's just a thing. I've never been spontaneously aroused by something either, I have to deliberately seek out material related to my one fetish, and I have a pretty low libido so if I really wanted to I'm pretty sure I could just ignore it (and in the past I have gone for months at a time without thinking about it even once).

 

I'm quite lucky in that peer pressure doesn't seem to affect me as it does other people, so the feelings and ideas around the whole issue that society holds haven't permeated my mind in the same way it does to other people I see on AVEN, so for that reason I don't feel particularly guilty. It's not something I'd ever talk about anywhere where I'm not semi-anonymous like I am here on the internet, but again, it's in the same way I wouldn't talk about my bowel movements in any particular detail either.

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Icelandic WinterDragon

I'm repulsed by anything to do with sex and anything sexual, there for I do not even masturbate as I see it as a form of sexual activity that I have no desire in, I've never done either of them, and I do not desire to try either of them. I also avoid many talks, movies, shows, books, and music that have anything about sex and sexual activities in them. I'm in my late 20s and still a virgin and never want to give it up. 

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