This gray area is confusing though! It keeps morphing!

[Tofruity]

When I joined this forum I was fairly clear on the gray area's boundaries which definitely have a cupio flavor and generally heteroflex. Now, these past couple months I've found myself with sexual thoughts for friends?

 

Scenario 1: At a party, I didnt know anyone except for a couple friends and stuck with them. After a few drinks I mention something about a whip, my friend says "I have some too" DANGIT now I have an image in my head. Lose sleep over it that night.

 

Scenario 2: Getting emotionally close with another friend during a camping trip. We cuddled going to sleep the last night. My mind seems to jump to next steps because historically thats what cuddling has meant for me. Dont want to act on them though

 

 

Thoughts? Anyone relate? 

[roland.o]

Those thoughts you were having... just thoughts? Or a desire to act on them? Curiosity? "What if"s?

 

In scenario 2, responsive sexual desire?