Charlie Weasley Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 hey i have started to have really tactile sexual dreams and it feels like i am someone else in the dream. do you ever enjoy or experience those type of dreams at all? and i mean literal foreplay, intercourse and sex, not symbolism, like idk ice cream licking^^ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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Ace ♠ At ♠ Archery Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 I don't dream about that sort of thing a lot but I have once or twice and when I woke up I freaked out and felt really bad about it for the rest of the day. I didn't enjoy it at all and it felt like it wasn't really me in that dream. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpy Alien Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 I'm sexual but don't really experience sexual dreams. Only once in a blue moon and they're vague and that's not the main focus of the dream. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Deus Ex Infinity Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 1 hour ago, Charlie Weasley said: hey i have started to have really tactile sexual dreams and it feels like i am someone else in the dream. do you ever enjoy or experience those type of dreams at all? and i mean literal foreplay, intercourse and sex, not symbolism, like idk ice cream licking^^ I don't imagine any explicit pornographic scenes in my dreams but I really enjoy becoming one with my fictional love nevertheless. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Member4445 Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 I once had a sexual dream involving a threesome with a coworker and his girlfriend (also a coworker). I still can't look at either of them in the face and avoided them for about a week. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Groobly Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 Sometimes, but very rarely. In the dreams things are never really realistic, though. They're usually what I wish sex could be like, because if it were more like this I'd like it more. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mori child Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 When I have sexual dreams, it's not very explicit because I haven't actually had sex before. So in the dream I am aware that I am having sex, but my brain doesn't put any effort into making it realistic. It's more like the sex is set up only to the extent needed to make it clear to me what's going on, and after that I'm just thinking things like "oh, I appear to be having sex, how very unusual!" Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lux aeterna Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 I often have sexual dreams, buuuuut the weird thing is: it always ends before intercourse. I wake up or something happens in the dream, so we stop. A month ago it was the first time ever that I dreamed about having sex with someone, no idea what that means. And it is always with someone I know and am attracted to. During the dream I feel nothing (maybe some shame) and when I wake up and remember it I'm like: WTF? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Acing It Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Thank heavens no... not even remotely or symbolic. Not sure why I don't... it's not even remotely on my mind during the day and what keeps me busy during the day seems to be what my dreams are focused on, often symbolically. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
celestialwhims Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Anything even remotely connected to intimacy, especially sexual, often feels nightmarish for me. I once had a dream about being with an intimate partner, and while all we were doing was talking (about what, I don't remember anymore), I woke up in a cold sweat, out of breath and terrified. I once had a inkling of a suggestive dream (about two fictional characters, funnily enough), and the same thing happened. It's hard enough to be surrounded by other people thinking sexual thoughts, but to have it invade one's own mind is the absolute worst. It hasn't happened again after those two instances, and I hope it stays that way. If I ever envision anything more graphic, I'd probably feel sick, haha! xx Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sera1001 Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 No, not really. I dreamed of my mom naked once. I didn't feel anything. I think they're memorable though. I didn't get grossed out because i often have fantasies. Just wasnt.... sex 0-0 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bean9 Posted October 31, 2017 Share Posted October 31, 2017 Lately I've been having a lot of dreams lately that are sexual in nature and where Im pleasuring myself and very rarely im with someone else. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Topi Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 I sometimes have dreams where I'm masturbating. I don't see the acts, but I feel the sensations of touches in my genitals and the build up, but like in real life I don't reach the orgasm. Besides, this I have dreams with plots with non-descriptive sexual scenes, more focussed in building healthy relationships, despite the troubles of not feeling romantic feelings towards other people. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 I have this (including the feeling of not feeling like myself) and I hate it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rhaenys Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 I rarely have sexual dreams. I've only had three in all of my 20+ years of existence. One was with a guy, the 2nd was with a girl I fell out badly with and the last was with a BTS member. I enjoyed them sorry not sorry. For me it was odd because in the dreams it was me whereas when I fantasize or masturbate it's never me. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
J. van Deijck Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 thankfully I don't have such dreams. instead, I often have dreams where I run away and hide from women/girls who definitely want to have sex with me. I still don't understand why I have only these kinds of dreams. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The Gnat (Natalie) Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 I'm 21 years old, and I've never had a sex dream... I don't get it. I guess that was one of the things that indicated to me that I'm ace. My brain just doesn't bother to go there at all. That said, there's nothing wrong with them, and even if it feels weird it's nothing to feel bad about! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
J. van Deijck Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 10 minutes ago, The Gnat (Natalie) said: I'm 21 years old, and I've never had a sex dream... I don't get it. I guess that was one of the things that indicated to me that I'm ace. My brain just doesn't bother to go there at all this is so relatable. I was like wtf every time people I knew were talking about their dreams. I literally thought they were lying Quote Link to post Share on other sites
J. van Deijck Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 10 minutes ago, The Gnat (Natalie) said: I'm 21 years old, and I've never had a sex dream... I don't get it. I guess that was one of the things that indicated to me that I'm ace. My brain just doesn't bother to go there at all this is so relatable. I was like wtf every time people I knew were talking about their dreams. I literally thought they were lying 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The Gnat (Natalie) Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 1 hour ago, [noize:injekktion] said: this is so relatable. I was like wtf every time people I knew were talking about their dreams. I literally thought they were lying Same. I truly thought people were lying about almost every aspect of sexuality until like a year ago, and when I found out they were being genuine I was shocked and confused 😂 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
J. van Deijck Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 1 minute ago, The Gnat (Natalie) said: Same. I truly thought people were lying about almost every aspect of sexuality until like a year ago, and when I found out they were being genuine I was shocked and confused 😂 yet another relatable thing XD and it doesn't help that they also think that we are lying, right? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The Gnat (Natalie) Posted November 3, 2017 Share Posted November 3, 2017 Just now, [noize:injekktion] said: yet another relatable thing XD and it doesn't help that they also think that we are lying, right? True! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
EdInLeeds Posted November 4, 2017 Share Posted November 4, 2017 Come to think of it, I've not had a sex-related dream in years. I used to have them, but I cannot remember the last one. It must be at least five years ago. I wonder if this means that something about me has changed. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
cartamine Posted November 4, 2017 Share Posted November 4, 2017 I think the most sexual dream i had was me kissing my crush at the time. I think my dreams tend to focus on the romantic aspects and a kind of spiritual and intellectual connection with the other person. But most of the time, my dreams are just weird... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Charlie Weasley Posted November 11, 2017 Author Share Posted November 11, 2017 Wow many answers Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Welsh Ace Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Never had any sexual dreams. Didn't even have so-called wet dreams as a teenager. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
anlin Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 On 2017-10-29 at 7:25 PM, Groobly said: Sometimes, but very rarely. In the dreams things are never really realistic, though. They're usually what I wish sex could be like, because if it were more like this I'd like it more. On 2017-10-29 at 8:36 PM, mori child said: When I have sexual dreams, it's not very explicit because I haven't actually had sex before. So in the dream I am aware that I am having sex, but my brain doesn't put any effort into making it realistic. It's more like the sex is set up only to the extent needed to make it clear to me what's going on, and after that I'm just thinking things like "oh, I appear to be having sex, how very unusual!" I recognize my dreams in what you both say here! When I dream about sex it is mostly me, but at the same time it isn't me (like it is in dreams sometimes you know), having sex with someone that almost all the time is someone who doesn't exist or I don't know in reality. And not detailed at all. I haven't had sex so I wouldn't know details. It's more moving and sensing something that I interpret as sex. Lately I've had these dreams more often and I don't like it. I seem to enjoy it in the dreams but I always feel uncomfortable when I wake up. I wish these dreams would stop and I both want and don't want to know why I have these dreasm... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lord Pocky Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 Dreams like that for me are of me not being there at all and just seeing two guys doing the do. Damn my yaoi loving self! So nah, in my dreams I'm not having sex, but two other people are doing it instead. Yeaah... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gladstone Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 I have such dreams from time to time, looks like I'm an exception here... I even have this strange sensation, that usually wakes me up. I guess it might be the sleep orgasm? The feeling is ok. Not wonderful, but ok. Do you think it may question my asexuality? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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