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Hi,

I believe I am sensually, ascetically and, I think, romantically attracted to guys (I am female). I have had one or two real crushes on a guy. So I think I am asexual. However, I have never had any sexual arousal. I enjoy kissing and cuddling but do not feel that it triggers any biological sexual response. I just like the connect it gives between people. From what I gather online, most ace people have sexual arousal but it is not directed at individuals. So I am wondering where this leaves me. Will I feel aroused later in life or will I never feel it? I'm 19 by the way.

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Not all asexuals feel sexual arousal. You could be a non-libidoist, which means that you don't have any sex drive in addition to not feeling sexual attraction.

 

By the way, I've removed your duplicate of this topic.

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If I am non-libidoist now, might this change as I get older? Could I just be a late bloomer?  Also, can non-libidoists still get aroused if physically stimulated? Are there some people who never become aroused even if touched? Sorry for the overload of questions.

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Hello, 

 

Have you ever been further than kissing and cuddling? I am/was the opposite way around. I felt like I could in parts feel aroused by people however whenever it came to physical contact I felt indifference so perhaps it is the other way around for you. 

 

I hope that made sense if not I will try explain it better. 

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