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What does orgasm remind you of as an asexual?


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Meditation. After I orgasm, I am more present in the moment, going about my day. I focus better if I start reading afterwards. That being said, I go months without it. 

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The person who said it felt like a sneeze is dead right!

 

Physically it feels like a longer, better sneeze.  Mentally I don't get any feeling, no thoughts or anything like that.

 

Being that an orgasm is purely physical to me, there are many other things just as good.  Believe it or not, I get them same joy when I drink a really good cup of tea lol.

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On 20.10.2017 at 2:48 PM, swirl_of_blue said:

Physically, best feeling in the world. Mentally feels weird. On general level, only getting 100% result from an exam, winning a football game or making a good tackle come close (you know, those sort of things that make you feel absolutely invincible for a moment).

LOL for me there's no way an orgasm is even remotely close, let alone better than a perfectly timed tackling :D

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3 hours ago, Homer said:

LOL for me there's no way an orgasm is even remotely close, let alone better than a perfectly timed tackling :D

Tackling tackle?? :P:P

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I mean... just watch this. My favourite kind of porn :wub:

 

(Disclaimer: Link does not contain actual pornography)

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never had one...i get bored after 45 seconds and i cant continue. 

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1 hour ago, Homer said:

I mean... just watch this. My favourite kind of porn :wub:

 

(Disclaimer: Link does not contain actual pornography)

I like the use of the word porn. Detractors refer to The Weather Channel's coverage of events, be they hurricanes, blizzards or tornadoes as weather porn.

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11 hours ago, Homer said:

LOL for me there's no way an orgasm is even remotely close, let alone better than a perfectly timed tackling :D

It's a bit like comparing foods that are both tasty but completely different, like chocolate cake and something salty and cheesy. Both very good, but can't really be compared on the same grounds. But if a comparison HAS to be made, they would probably end up being pretty equal. Probably not a good idea to try combining them either (and oh god now I need bleach for my brain, I do not want to think of combining football and sex...)

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Blue Phoenix Ace

Like getting a back massage during the aforementioned bladder relief. :)

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On 10/1/2017 at 7:50 PM, Telperion said:

Hm, like floating on an open ocean on a sunny, warm day. *Shrugs* I find them relaxing (not when someone else is involved, just myself) and that's the best I can describe it as, since that's extremely relaxing for me (floating on water).

 

As I read this, my belly softens and expands to draw in a soft breath.

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It's like scratching a serious itch, then a weird build up of tension, ah-hah! maybe something interesting will happen...aaaand then the muscles suddenly relax, tension goes away, then it just hurts to continue "scratching that itch." 

Then I'm like...is that it??? Is this what many people are making such a big fuss over? Maybe am not doing it right (tries again later) Nope. Huh. Harmless activity, but a waste of time. 

 

It feels soooo much better getting a back rub. Have a theory that maybe some folks have fewer nerves down there? All mine went into my back. 

 

I admire my sexual friends for their ability to apparently get massive enjoyment out of the orgasm thing. Scurvy rascals. Sure I'm a wee bit jealous sometimes, but it's cool. Whatever floats your boat:-)

 

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2 hours ago, RiseOfCourage said:

I admire my sexual friends for their ability to apparently get massive enjoyment out of the orgasm thing. Scurvy rascals. Sure I'm a wee bit jealous sometimes, but it's cool. Whatever floats your boat:-)

 

You don't have to be a 'sexual' person to enjoy an orgasm.

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RoseGoesToYale

Kind of like that moment on the playground swing when you get really high up there and you can feel the motion in the pit your stomach, and decide to jump off right then, and it feels great, until you see the monkey bars hurtling toward you and think "Oh no, what have I done? I take it back!", but are pleasantly relieved to find you've only landed smack in the sandbox.

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On 02/10/2017 at 4:50 AM, Telperion said:

Hm, like floating on an open ocean on a sunny, warm day. *Shrugs* I find them relaxing (not when someone else is involved, just myself) and that's the best I can describe it as, since that's extremely relaxing for me (floating on water).

Same here. It's just a very relaxing feeling, helps me falling asleep (only ever had orgasms while masturbating, alone). 

I feel more pleasure in dancing and horse riding than in having orgasms, definitely! 

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It's always good when it's MY WORLD.

I am the god. Not "Ok this sweater is brand new and you have to not cum on it."

 

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On 10/20/2017 at 2:08 AM, StormySky said:

Idk never had one, but when I hear the word I think of a sushi roll called orgasm roll. I saw it on a menu but did not order :P

Lol what the XD

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Honestly, I can't have it without masturbation. I wondered how people could actually have orgasm just by staring at stuff.. Or does that actually happen? I could only get arousal when it's visually sexually pleasing. I do get a bit aroused looking at people but not a desire, drive and sexual attraction.

1 hour ago, Kersenne said:

Same here. It's just a very relaxing feeling, helps me falling asleep (only ever had orgasms while masturbating, alone). 

I feel more pleasure in dancing and horse riding than in having orgasms, definitely! 

I don't understand how it's relaxing :/ Maybe afterwards? It helps me sleep too. I guess that's considered relaxing.

Anyway! Orgasms remind me of a crocodile's mouth for some reason. It's because it reminded me of eating. It's like a mouth that opens and close uncontrollably. I can't relate to the other ones that's been mentioned. I do get the feeling of peeing. Because afterwards, it's hard to pee. It's like you held it for days.

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20 minutes ago, Sera1001 said:

Honestly, I can't have it without masturbation. I wondered how people could actually have orgasm just by staring at stuff.. Or does that actually happen? I could only get arousal when it's visually sexually pleasing. I do get a bit aroused looking at people but not a desire, drive and sexual attraction.

I don't understand how it's relaxing :/ Maybe afterwards? It helps me sleep too. I guess that's considered relaxing.

Anyway! Orgasms remind me of a crocodile's mouth for some reason. It's because it reminded me of eating. It's like a mouth that opens and close uncontrollably. I can't relate to the other ones that's been mentioned. I do get the feeling of peeing. Because afterwards, it's hard to pee. It's like you held it for days.

Ok but here with ya.

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So you might be relating it to a urination problem?

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38 minutes ago, ANOTABADGrade said:

So you might be relating it to a urination problem?

I think it's normal though. I searched it and most people who experience sex would have that effect. Not really a urination problem. Just maybe not all people experience that "hard to pee" after orgasm.

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On 01/10/2017 at 10:50 PM, Telperion said:

Hm, like floating on an open ocean on a sunny, warm day. *Shrugs* I find them relaxing (not when someone else is involved, just myself) and that's the best I can describe it as, since that's extremely relaxing for me (floating on water).

Pretty much how I feel about them. I like the sensation cause it relaxes me.

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Would have not expect that sort of topic here %D

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3 minutes ago, lux aeterna said:

Would have not expect that sort of topic here %D

Since this forum is more onto sexuality, it probably has a lot of these topics 😂

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Just now, Sera1001 said:

Since this forum is more onto sexuality, it probably has a lot of these topics 😂

So musings and rantings does imply sexuality?

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3 minutes ago, lux aeterna said:

So musings and rantings does imply sexuality?

Nope. But it might be. Sorry, i misunderstood ;-; i thought you were stating generally on the website. I didn't know which forum this was from. I didn't pay much attention on which forum it was.

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3 minutes ago, Sera1001 said:

Nope. But it might be. Sorry, i misunderstood ;-; i thought you were stating generally on the website. I didn't know which forum this was from. 

No worries, I was just confused, because I thought aven is my safe haven where it is not about sex and orgasms.

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3 hours ago, Sera1001 said:

Honestly, I can't have it without masturbation. I wondered how people could actually have orgasm just by staring at stuff.. Or does that actually happen? I could only get arousal when it's visually sexually pleasing. I do get a bit aroused looking at people but not a desire, drive and sexual attraction.

I don't understand how it's relaxing :/ Maybe afterwards? It helps me sleep too. I guess that's considered relaxing.

Once I was able to achieve an orgasm thru 'mental' masturbation. I think I was just imagining a VERY sexual situation, I became aroused and so on... It was a period several years ago when I spent a lot of time 'experimenting' (I've posted about it in the Sex Talk forum). It seemed time-consuming forthe end result, so I never repeated the act.

 

At times it can be more than relaxing, I'll feel like I should take a nap afterwards.

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The mods might want to move it to the Sex Talk forum.

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Just now, will123 said:

The mods might want to move it to the Sex Talk forum.

That would be nice.

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4 hours ago, Sera1001 said:

I do get the feeling of peeing. Because afterwards, it's hard to pee. It's like you held it for days.

 

3 hours ago, ANOTABADGrade said:

So you might be relating it to a urination problem?

 

2 hours ago, Sera1001 said:

I think it's normal though. I searched it and most people who experience sex would have that effect. Not really a urination problem. Just maybe not all people experience that "hard to pee" after orgasm.

I find after having an orgasm that it's difficult to pee. I wonder if it's because your body is 'confused'. During masturbation and leading up to ejaculation, your brain is trying to keep your urinary tract 'closed' to delay/intensify ejaculation. Then after orgasm your brain is telling your body to 'open up' when you go to pee.

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