Am I Asexual? I like porn and sometimes I masterbate (TMI).

[Bleh360]

I have the minimal knowledge about asexuality from a 2016 thread I just read from here and Google's definition. My quest for this knowledge all started when I was watching big bang theory and someone mentioned scrotum. I wasn't sure I knew what part of the penis that was so I Google images scrotum and a bunch of nasty looking penis' came up. I said it was gross in my head and then thought of all other genitals I have seen even vaginas and I was still like gross. 

 

Some info about me. I like porn, it's funny and sometimes the hentai have great stories. When I watch or read something that is in-depth like that I get a bit aroused but it's usually only for a certain moment. Usually the end part when the guy moans and ejaculates, it's always when in the stationary position that I get the full blown "oh that's hot" feeling, never if he does it on her face, i kinda just want to throw up when i even see the penis or the vagina. I find that to be the only thing that arouses me in the live action porn, the rest is just them being nasty. And once I get aroused I can masturbate with that picture in mind, and sometimes it will feel good sometimes I will lose the picture and it's over.  Without the picture and sounds in mind it feels weird like I'm washing without soap and water.

 

here's the thing,i dont mind touching myself cause i cannot even see my vagina, when it comes to real life action, and it's someone else's fingers and mouth interacting with me I get very uncomfortable. It feels nasty just having someone else's tongue in my mouth. 

 

So what you guys think am I a sexual or asexual? Or a sexual with asexual tendencies? Maybe i just dont like other peoples bodily fluids and this has nothing to do with sexual arousal?

 

Or maybe I am one of those people who likes porn so much they cannot get aroused by regular people anymore? Though I only watch like 1 explicit porn video a month and it's usually out of boredom or i was looking for a new storyline or read/saw a very erotic scene in a book/show [This happens when I watch black sails, way too much explicit sex going on].

[TheAP]

It's possible that you are asexual. Watching porn and masturbating doesn't disqualify you. 

 

(By the way, I added a TMI to your thread title, just to caution people.  )

[Member5732]

As long as you don't have any sexual attraction or any interest in any sexual activity,  you may call yourself Asexual. And it's common for Asexuals to be sex-repulsive. Watching porn, getting arousal or stuff, masturbation etc does not disqualify you, as @TheAP said.

[.galaxy]

Welcome to the club. I understand where you are coming from. It just so happens that one can like porn and masturbate and still be asexual. One's fantasies doesn't necessarily change their sexuality. I know a few straight people that have often said they fantasy about being with one of their gender and they still don't feel the need to act on it nor probably ever some might, some might even find it changes how they label themselves. That's the profound bit not many people realize. You label yourself. If you feel the label fits than congratulations! If you find yourself one day realizing that label no longer fits than so be it. Nobody can tell you more about you, than you can tell yourself. 

 

Hopefully that helps =]