ben8884 Posted September 30, 2017 Share Posted September 30, 2017 I am capable of both. Link to post Share on other sites
Mioav Posted October 2, 2017 Share Posted October 2, 2017 Am I a nice person? I'm stuck in a world dominated by sexual obsessed with fucking eachother who fuck me over metaphorically because I won't have sex. I'm a nice person, everyone else is a bunch of assholes. Link to post Share on other sites
Tanzanite Posted October 2, 2017 Share Posted October 2, 2017 In real life? Genuinely nice? For the most part, no. Unless I know the person well enough, it's pretty much just indifference combined with politeness. From experience, most people can't tell the difference anyway. As long as they're not scared to talk to me when we're dealing with things such as group projects, I can't care any less. Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted October 2, 2017 Share Posted October 2, 2017 I suppose I can be Narcissistic Impetuous Conceited Egocentric Link to post Share on other sites
Elftober Country Posted October 2, 2017 Share Posted October 2, 2017 Just now, Skycaptain said: I suppose I can be Narcissistic Impetuous Conceited Egocentric You know there's a "list your faults" thread, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Not in the slightest, although unintentionally so. My memory is bad, so I forget things like birthdays, and my phone for birthday reminders. I'm really bad at social stuff in general, so I'm pretty sure people see me as rude / stuck up / shy or some strange mixture of all three. Plus my inferiority complex just adds to my less than friendly moods especially when I have to get up in the morning. Link to post Share on other sites
banoffeepie Posted October 3, 2017 Share Posted October 3, 2017 Nice person? Hmm well I don't let anyone see my 'Aria Stark' list of people. So that's nice of me right? Link to post Share on other sites
Semiterrestrial Scientist Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 I try to be nice. Most of the time I end up being "too" nice and it ends up being kinda awkward. I can b a tiny she-devil though. Link to post Share on other sites
Groobly Posted October 11, 2017 Share Posted October 11, 2017 Most of the time, sure. I'm very rarely going out of my way to be mean to someone, and I enjoy being nice to people. Though, I'm also very quiet and distant, which sometimes people interpret as me being rude or mean. I'm also kinda blunt too, so I can say some stuff people find rude as well. I don't really mean it, though. It's just how I am. I also have a crude sense of humor and vocabulary. Link to post Share on other sites
80hours Posted October 11, 2017 Share Posted October 11, 2017 I'm one of the nicest people ever. Will always honor my commitments, and when something bad happens, well it's just life. You have to be sharp though to not enable behavior that will cause more suffering and confusion though. Link to post Share on other sites
mistfallen Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 Depends on the person ;P I try to be nice most of the time. There are some days when it's really hard to do that, unfortunately, but generally I just treat people how they treat me. Link to post Share on other sites
Hazell Posted October 16, 2017 Share Posted October 16, 2017 I'm trying to be nice to everybody but who knows...maybe someone could think I'm not nice! Link to post Share on other sites
Rhaenys Posted October 17, 2017 Share Posted October 17, 2017 I'm quite a bitch to ppl I dislike or if I perceive someone acting in a way that irritates me and often I have an ego over those ppl and care not for their feelings. However I will put myself in danger for ppl I like and I'm pretty self sacrifical so I guess I am nice in a way. Link to post Share on other sites
QueenOfTheRats Posted November 2, 2017 Share Posted November 2, 2017 I'm a super nice person. Link to post Share on other sites
bonny Posted November 2, 2017 Share Posted November 2, 2017 I have very few friends, so I assume I cannot be nice, because if I was lots of people would like me...right? Link to post Share on other sites
TheAP Posted November 2, 2017 Share Posted November 2, 2017 23 minutes ago, bonny said: I have very few friends, so I assume I cannot be nice, because if I was lots of people would like me...right? Not necessarily. Some people are unpopular for other reasons, like having "weird" interests, being shy, being socially awkward, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
IceHurricane Posted November 2, 2017 Share Posted November 2, 2017 I ask myself this all the time. I do nice deeds, but I don't think I'm a nice person at heart. Let me explain. I'll do nice things for people. I'll give up my time and energy to help anyone in need. I'm not mean, I make sure to be polite and not say anything that can hurt anyone's feelings. I'll do any favour that's asked of me with a smile on my face and I'll do it to the best of my ability. But I don't like it. I hate being nice to people. I wish I was selfish. I just can't say no to people. I'm a people pleaser, and I wish I can stop but I can't. I hate spending money on people, I hate having to go out of my way to do something for someone. I hate doing things for people that I don't want to do. But I can't say no. So I waste my time and money and energy and I keep my mouth shut and I plaster on that smile and do whatever people want me to do even though I'm cursing you in my mind. And it's not your fault. You're just asking for help. I'm just beating myself up because I can't say no. So am I a nice person? Everyone I interact with says I am. They think I'm the sweetest. Calls me an angel. But am I really a nice person? I don't think so. Link to post Share on other sites
J. van Deijck Posted November 2, 2017 Share Posted November 2, 2017 I'm not even a person. Link to post Share on other sites
Topi Posted November 5, 2017 Share Posted November 5, 2017 I think it depends on what people consider to be nice. I try to be my definition of nice. Link to post Share on other sites
ChillaKilla Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 Depends on who you are Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 We are a villain in this story Link to post Share on other sites
Hermit Advocate Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 Meh. Sometimes I'm nice. Sometimes I'm not. Link to post Share on other sites
Crash1991 Posted November 8, 2017 Share Posted November 8, 2017 I probably sound like a huge douchebag for saying this, but I think I'm a nice person yes. I'm helpfull, swear with cute silly words, humble, have high moral standards, feel guilty quickly.... I hate that procastinate way too much thought. Link to post Share on other sites
RiseOfCourage Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 Had to question my "niceness level" when a friend swatted at a small fly on his forehead and the fly stuck there. I didn't say anything because...well I'm a dick for this, but wanted to see other people's reactions and then my poor friend's reaction to all the strange looks. It was funny as hell! Hmmm, humor at the expense of a friend's dignity. Not high on the nice level. Oh but couldn't help it! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jetsun Milarepa Posted November 12, 2017 Share Posted November 12, 2017 I'd like to think I am, but there are a good few out there who would beg to differ! Link to post Share on other sites
Lord Pocky Posted November 13, 2017 Share Posted November 13, 2017 I'm a good boy! I don't do drugs, sex, or drink. i do fairly well in school (some As and Bs) and im generally a kind person (unless I hate said person or am in a bad mood/tired/hungry) although I'm a fairly dense individual sooo... Link to post Share on other sites
SithAzathoth WinterDragon Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 Yes and no Yes, because there are times when all are harsh, therefore I'll usually depending on the situation be nice. No, because I want to prove I'm serious in cases where said person violated my personal area by asking questions I'm not going to share answers about. Link to post Share on other sites
RhuinHruda Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 Yes. To my chagrin. I'm not nice because I want to be. I'm not nice because I want to help. I help because I need to fix things that are broken. Because there are puzzles that need to be solved. Generally, that's how it starts. It doesn't always continue that way. There are times I actually do care, but it's usually after I've already gotten involved. Of course, saying that means: No, I'm not nice. I get involved in people's lives because I want to fix them. Not because I care but because I hate leaving a project undone. Even when I didn't start it. But then: Yes, I am a nice person. Because after I start fixing them, I start to care. And I want their lives to be better. And I want them to be happy. And maybe I can help them get there. But also: Once they are fixed, they require less of my attention and effort, and I can just spend time with them without needing to help them with things. Who's to say? Link to post Share on other sites
AussieIsAce Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 im nice unless you fuck with my morals. Link to post Share on other sites
Perkins Posted November 19, 2017 Share Posted November 19, 2017 Not all the time Link to post Share on other sites
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