Ghani Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 Hey everyone I'm a 23-year-old woman from Finland. Currently, I'm having a hard time labeling myself. I identify as an asexual but sometimes I wonder, what if it's just myself trying to come up with any explanation as to why I still haven't had a single relationship. On the other hand, I have no interest in sex whatsoever. So far, romantic asexual sounds closest to what I feel. I guess I'm just feeling like a huge mess inside, and I'm trying to come forwards and maybe meet people with similar thoughts and feelings. It's actually a rather big thing to me to join a site like this, as I'm rather introvert. However, I love making new friends and since I've been feeling so lonely for ages, I decided to just give it a shot. Link to post Share on other sites
TheAP Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 Hello there, and welcome to AVEN! As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message. Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. The following are also nifty links to take a look at: Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped! Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 Welcome! Don't worry about finding the perfect label, how you feel on the inside is what counts. As long as you feel like you know what you want then you don't have to worry about labelling it. Take time to sort through your emotions, and stay true to yourself. In the end the only person that can label you is you. Link to post Share on other sites
Ghani Posted September 19, 2017 Author Share Posted September 19, 2017 Thank you! I really hope communicating with similar people will help me find out who I am Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 Good to hear. If you're interested in meeting others asexuals in your area you could always try the meet up mart http://www.asexuality.org/en/forum/12-meetup-mart/ Link to post Share on other sites
Ghani Posted September 21, 2017 Author Share Posted September 21, 2017 Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
CirrusClouds Posted September 22, 2017 Share Posted September 22, 2017 Here Here, to making new friends and sharing pictures of cake Link to post Share on other sites
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