VitaminMe Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 Around the time that I start going to school, my openly gay friend started sending me confusing messages. Sometimes he would call me his sister and hug me, and others he would be kissing me. I'm technically a girl though! I do like him, but he is sending confusing signals and i don't know what to do or how to bring it up. Some advice would be helpful please. Link to post Share on other sites
Jackninja5 Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 It could be a sign of friendship or something. If you're uncomfortable with it, tell him gently. Link to post Share on other sites
OldSoul Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 You may want to define kiss- like a friendly top-of-the-head kiss, or on the lips? Link to post Share on other sites
VitaminMe Posted September 9, 2017 Author Share Posted September 9, 2017 19 minutes ago, OldSoul said: You may want to define kiss- like a friendly top-of-the-head kiss, or on the lips? on my neck, with tongue. Link to post Share on other sites
OldSoul Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 With... tongue? Well, that's...odd. Is this a normal thing for him, to multiple people, or is this aimed at just you? Link to post Share on other sites
VitaminMe Posted September 9, 2017 Author Share Posted September 9, 2017 10 minutes ago, OldSoul said: With... tongue? Well, that's...odd. Is this a normal thing for him, to multiple people, or is this aimed at just you? Yeah I know, it was weird. He isn't really an affectionate person to anyone but me. He's been saying hi to me all the time and hugs me at the end of every school day. Link to post Share on other sites
OldSoul Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 I would definitely seek out a conversation, and set boundaries now. He may see you as not voicing anything against it as reciprocating a flirtation. Maybe it is harmless, or maybe he thinks you two have a budding romance. It may feel uncomfortable to check, but there's no harm in it, and if you let it go further it could be extremely uncomfortable at a later date. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.