confused_girl77 Posted August 11, 2017 Share Posted August 11, 2017 Hey, I think I might be bisexual, because I can see myself dating and being romantically attracted to a girl. When my best friend (which is a girl) laid on me while watching a movie, I just really wanted to cuddle her and kiss her. But you know, at the time I was like "BUT YOURE STRAIGHT! SHES STRAIGHT. ITS WRONG" and I have a crush on a girl. So basically what I'm asking is for some good questions for me to answer about this because I am I so confused rn Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 11, 2017 Share Posted August 11, 2017 Was it the fact that she was a girl that attracted you or was it just the intimacy that was such a turn on? Link to post Share on other sites
Cimmerian Posted August 11, 2017 Share Posted August 11, 2017 Hm, you could imagine the same situation with some other girls you know (or actresses) and see if you still think the same thing. Try people watching the next time you're out and see if there's any women that you could see yourself wanting to kiss etc. if you were dating them. I think time helps more than any questions I can think of. Over time you'll see if those thoughts remain consistent, if you have any dreams about dating situations with girls etc. It took me months to decide if I was actually bisexual or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Scarlet Spider Posted August 11, 2017 Share Posted August 11, 2017 Not sure but personally, I think it's much easier for women to become bisexual. Since many women try kissing their best friends and often like it. It's not nearly as weird as one guy saying "lets kiss" because it sounds kind of hot. Everyone loves girl x girl, but only women like guy x guy. And even then, some women prefer seeing two women making out instead of two men. Even in pornography there is more MFF than MMF bisex. More of the MMF ends up being simply straight, while the MFF often ends up being bisexual. Maybe that's just me though. I realized for a little while I had a small crush on a straight friend of mine, until one day I realized that was never going to work out so I stopped. I could've just been really horny and thinking about sex, but it's hard to tell when you're thinking about someone. It's either romantic (feelings) or sexual (intimate). And sometimes those two go hand-in-hand. Maybe I am bisexual, sometimes I don't know. But I understand the feeling of such confusion. Link to post Share on other sites
confused_girl77 Posted August 16, 2017 Author Share Posted August 16, 2017 On 8/10/2017 at 9:25 PM, ABryonJ.maybe? said: Was it the fact that she was a girl that attracted you or was it just the intimacy that was such a turn on? It was just a turn on I guess. It felt right Link to post Share on other sites
confused_girl77 Posted August 16, 2017 Author Share Posted August 16, 2017 On 8/10/2017 at 10:13 PM, Cimmerian said: Hm, you could imagine the same situation with some other girls you know (or actresses) and see if you still think the same thing. Try people watching the next time you're out and see if there's any women that you could see yourself wanting to kiss etc. if you were dating them. I think time helps more than any questions I can think of. Over time you'll see if those thoughts remain consistent, if you have any dreams about dating situations with girls etc. It took me months to decide if I was actually bisexual or not. Thanks, this really helped me. I'll try doing what you've suggested🖤 Link to post Share on other sites
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