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Update - we're communicating better & things are going well.


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He's been more flirty and is making an effort to be more affectionate. Yay!

 

Last week I looked in the mirror and thought that I looked pretty (which is rare) and mentioned it in passing. His response was basically "it's about time," which is about the closet thing he can give to a compliment that doesn't involve squeezing something while making a honking noise. I'll take it. 

 

We had naughty cuddle times a couple of times last month (after none at all for the first half of 2017), and we've started natural family planning. Next couple of weeks are going to be fun for me!

 

Meanwhile, I've stopped being as sneaky when I go off for "Quality Time Alone" & I think that helps him see how important sex is to me but also seems to terrify him. Apparently I'm hornier than he was as a teen before he grew into his Asexuality.

 

(Aside: there has to be a better way to describe that - saying he "became" Asexual seems about as insulting as telling me I "became bisexual." Alternative phrasing suggestions are welcome).

 

Now to get him to understand that tickling me is not my idea of foreplay, hah!

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That is good to here :)

 

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