cloudy Posted July 31, 2017 Share Posted July 31, 2017 Can you still be aromantic if you like the idea of relationships but dont want one with anyone? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheAP Posted July 31, 2017 Share Posted July 31, 2017 Yes, I think you can still be aromantic if you haven't felt romantic attraction to anyone and your attraction is only platonic. And yes, asexuals can have a sex drive and think about sex, they just don't feel sexual attraction to actual people. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 31, 2017 Share Posted July 31, 2017 I personally think you seem to have too many questions and uncertainties to slap a label on yourself just yet!! Why not give it some time, see where your life goes, wait until you have some answers to the things you're uncertain about, before boxing yourself into a label? You could just say "I think I'm ace and aro but I'm currently giving it time until i know for certain" .. like if a guy said to me, "I think I like guys but I don't know, I dont hate the idea of sex with girls I just haven't felt any urge to actually do it, I just don't know if I'm gay or straight or bi or what" I'd say the same thing: just give it some time until you've had the chance to answer or at least explore some of these questions you're asking more thoroughly. I still don't identify as 'straight' 'bi' 'gay' or whatever. I don't see any real reason to box myself into a label that doesn't feel entirely right for me just yet. Good luck with whatever you eventually decide to do, whether you choose to go with aro/ace or give it some time Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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