Sheeran Posted July 29, 2017 Share Posted July 29, 2017 Hi guys, for a a while now I've been really confused about my sexuality. I don't know if I'd call myself asexual exactly but I think I might be somewhere on the asexual spectrum. For instance, I don't find all sex repulsive (I wouldn't exactly be horrified over the thought Of dying a virgin but if a sexual relationship happens it happens). Like I can strongly see myself in a relationship in the future. If we have a close relationship then I'd consider sex. But sex without knowing the person (like a one night stand, porn or even quickly into a relationship) does repulse me. Sex really isn't important to me. A good relationship where I'm loved is more important. I've never had sex dreams. But then I find that there isn't many people that I've found to be attractive. I can understand why others would like I can agree they are good looking but never attractive. In my life I've only found 2 people attractive. One was more because of the personality the other was because of their looks. I've always felt really left out when the topic of 'boys' comes up cause I can never truly relate to what everyone else is saying. I never really understood most romances on to especially the concept of love at first sight. What do you think? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lana Overland Posted July 29, 2017 Share Posted July 29, 2017 I mean yeah, if you feel like you're on the ace spectrum I'm not going to argue with you that sounds like a pretty reasonable conclusion. I would say demisexual if you're looking for labels. Good luck, I know it's not easy to be questioning, but seriously it's okay to say ace if you want to. Welcome to AVEN! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MiraMeyneth Posted July 29, 2017 Share Posted July 29, 2017 The traits you describe sound like asexuality, but only you can truly know. The "attraction" you mention sounds similar to aesthetic attraction, which is an attraction that is more along the lines of "I wanna draw you." rather than "I'm falling in love with you." Either way, welcome to AVEN, and if you want more info, you can always look around. Take some cake Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheAP Posted July 29, 2017 Share Posted July 29, 2017 Sounds like you might be a sex-indifferent asexual, which means that you're not repulsed by sex but don't experience a desire to do it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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