Following Through Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Well, have you? If you want to keep it between you and god, go right ahead. Link to post Share on other sites
Polygon Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Goodbye, money... Goodbye, free time... Goodbye forever, friends-- I'm far too busy... (Never ever) Link to post Share on other sites
Gloomy Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Never, ever, ever. If I dated I wouldn't date someone with kids because I wouldn't even want to be a step parent. Link to post Share on other sites
erf Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I will never have kids. If I ever think about having kids then shoot me. It's never going to happen. Link to post Share on other sites
Pramana Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I am sure that I could not handle being a parent. Nor do I have any interest in the concept. Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpy Alien Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I would like 2 of 3. Link to post Share on other sites
Yatogami Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 IVe wanted a kid, just so I can see what it looks like. o-o But raising one sounds tough. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Maybe when I'm 30+. ...or 35+. Link to post Share on other sites
JayDee1212 Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Hmm...well, I think I'll have to see where I am in life. If I am totally happy and fulfilled in my life without children then I would say no. However, if I'm in my 30s and financially stable then I think I would consider it. Ideally the child would be adopted, preferably a girl because little boys drive me nuts too, and absolutely no more than two kids max. Not sure if one or two would be ideal. But yeah I'd have to be 1000% sure that I could provide for them and give them the life they deserve, otherwise I would never even consider it. Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 This planet is messed up enough as is. No need to contribute to that. Link to post Share on other sites
Podsnap Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 It's only online that I see significant numbers of people saying they don't want kids. In real life all of my female friends scrambled in a desperate panic by at least late thirties to get their husband and baby. Link to post Share on other sites
AwkwardAxolotl Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 The only babies I want are fur-babies. When I eventually settle down, I will have a home filled with rescue animals. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 Nah, kids are the worst. Send them all off to Hogwarts out of the way. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jetsun Milarepa Posted July 10, 2017 Share Posted July 10, 2017 I have one adult daughter. when I look back, I wonder what I'd have learnt without her because she taught me so much I'd never have known otherwise. I agree that there are enough people on the planet now, so thankfully she has no plans to have kids herself. Link to post Share on other sites
To Each Their Own Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Nope. Never!! Crazy, but people with kids have actually told me that NOT having children is selfish. I happen to think that the opposite is true. If they want to have kids, fine. But I wish they wouldn't try to justify their choices by judging me and trying to convince me that my coices are wrong. Why do people do that?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Scott1989 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Nope never as I don't think I could be a decent father, and would be a screwed up parent. Don't want to cause that kind of pain to another, knowing what it's like myself with an absentee parent who doesn't seem to care. Link to post Share on other sites
King Al Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I'm a plastic bag Link to post Share on other sites
King Al Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 On 09/07/2017 at 6:16 AM, Graceful said: I would like 2 of 3. 2 of which three children? Link to post Share on other sites
bonny Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Never, because I'm too old now. I always assumed I'd "end up having children one day" because "that's what everybody does", but I don't think I was actually that bothered. Link to post Share on other sites
Peachyy Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I like kids and I think having competent parents is important but at the same time, there are more things I can do with my life to make me happy than just be a mother. if I lived 60-100+ years ago, there wouldn't have been much offered to me. Being a parent is a very fulfilling and beautiful and important thing, but I have more options that are just as beautiful and fulfilling and important and i wont' suffer by choosing something else over parenthood. In fact, perhaps I wouldn't even be happy being a parent even if it was all I had offered to me; I'm not going to take that risk when I know for sure what i want to do and how happy it will make me. Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpy Alien Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 4 hours ago, Acciuga said: 2 of which three children? oops! I'll take this one and this one but leave this one Link to post Share on other sites
King Al Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 8 hours ago, Graceful said: oops! I'll take this one and this one but leave this one Good choice Link to post Share on other sites
karnzter Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 I wouldn't mind having one, two, three or four with either a future potential frankly-discussed consent of a willing platonic companionate partner or a sperm donor (open ID or anonymous). Most likely through artificial insemination, IVF or surrogate (especially with my current health that needs to be checked) if with a partner or donor if solo, foster or adoption if solo or also with a partner. Having no kids is also okay. Only time and my actions will tell. Link to post Share on other sites
Confusion 0 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 It might be nice to maybe have one kid (Maybe), but they WOULD be adopted. No way am I contributing to over-population. Link to post Share on other sites
ItWasNiceKnowingYou Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 Nope. If i can't send them home to their parents after 5 p.m then hecks no. Link to post Share on other sites
Lord Jade Cross Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 How do I say this Hmmmm, oh yea HELL THE FUCK NO! Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 Couldn't even if I wasn't allergic to them Link to post Share on other sites
Digs_Dead_People Posted July 15, 2017 Share Posted July 15, 2017 Nope. I work with children and I'm more than happy to give them back at the end of the day. Children are way too difficult and I've never had the biological urge to reproduce (and, if I'm honest, the idea of pregnancy creeps me the hell out). Link to post Share on other sites
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