flyco Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 I'm from China，I am a 22 years old male.I can like both man and women，but I can't fantasy sex with someone else,sex is boring. When I watched a porn,I had physiological response，but I don't want to join them,I think reproductive organs are notgood-looking， I can only appreciate others with the aesthetic point of view . I also do not want to make love with others in peacetime.I desire a roman relationship.Am I a bi-asexuall， or I just like spiritual love？So confused. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheCatBehind Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 Hello and welcome! To start, I want to say that nobody on this side or outside of it can label you, however, we can give some useful information and point you towards some resources. Many asexuals distinguish between sexual and romantic orientations. As many of us often wish for such close and emotionally invested relationships, just without the sex, or not a "usual"/stereotypical amount of it. That said you can also be on the asexual spectrum and still identify as bisexual, heterosexual, homosexual, etc.—you don't have to limit yourself to one label. I hope that with the knowledge of a distinction between sexual and romantic orientations you will find a definition that describes you well! Just remember that nobody other than you can truly know your orientation. Have fun on AVEN and good luck! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RK800 Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 Perhaps you're biromantic and asexual? Of course no one but you can know for sure, but I'd recommend checking out the terms and seeing if they fit you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Just Me! Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 Perhaps the "spiritual love" you speak of refers to platonic/queerplatonic attraction? Also, welcome to AVEN! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheAP Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 Welcome! It sounds like you are likely asexual. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
flyco Posted June 25, 2017 Author Share Posted June 25, 2017 13 hours ago, Retrobot said: Perhaps you're biromantic and asexual? Of course no one but you can know for sure, but I'd recommend checking out the terms and seeing if they fit you. Thanks a lot.For now,I consider me as a bi-asexual. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
flyco Posted June 25, 2017 Author Share Posted June 25, 2017 11 hours ago, Just Me, Myself and...Zie? said: Perhaps the "spiritual love" you speak of refers to platonic/queerplatonic attraction? Also, welcome to AVEN! Thanks. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
flyco Posted June 25, 2017 Author Share Posted June 25, 2017 9 hours ago, TheAP said: Welcome! It sounds like you are likely asexual. Thanks a lot. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Just Me! Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 3 hours ago, flyco said: Thanks a lot.For now,I consider me as a bi-asexual. Given that you like romance but not sex, perhaps you're an asexual biromantic? Lots of asexuals have romantic orientations which differ from their sexual orientations. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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