CivilTwilight Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 Okay, so I don't think that I experience sexual attraction, but I do have a libido. I've seen that a lot of asexual people are usually sex repulsed or neutral, but I'd say I'm pretty sex neutral or positive. I'm worried that I won't be able to call myself ace because I want to have sex, but I feel like I could also develop sexual attraction during sexual activities but I'm not sure (mostly because I've never been in a relationship, or had sexual experiences). Should I label myself as ace, or is there a label that would fit me better? 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Pretty_mama2 Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 Why not do a bit more research into the different types and see if any of them connect with you? If I were you, I would just label yourself as you see fit at the time. You can always decide to change if you feel like you need to. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ageless Goddess Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 I agree with Pretty-Mama2's comment on doing a bit more research. As for myself, I really am not fond of labels as they don't express the authentic individual. This seems to be a helpful loving site in which to explore & receive useful information from those who have something positive to offer. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
200 Ponies Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 You could always look into the demisexual and graysexual labels if you don't feel totally allosexual or asexual. Otherwise, no label at all is perfectly fine! I'd recommend checking out the FAQ ( http://www.asexuality.org/?q=general.html ) for more info. It helped me out a lot. Good luck! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ageless Goddess Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 Thank you, for your kindness. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
darkstreamers252 Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 4 hours ago, CivilTwilight said: Okay, so I don't think that I experience sexual attraction, but I do have a libido. I've seen that a lot of asexual people are usually sex repulsed or neutral, but I'd say I'm pretty sex neutral or positive. I'm worried that I won't be able to call myself ace because I want to have sex, but I feel like I could also develop sexual attraction during sexual activities but I'm not sure (mostly because I've never been in a relationship, or had sexual experiences). Should I label myself as ace, or is there a label that would fit me better? I'm kindof in the same boat with you, I just say I'm cupiosexual when pressed specifically about it, at least this is the label that best describes me for now. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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