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Touch fondness I guess?


all.that.jazz

Touch fondness I guess?  

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  1. 1. Do you, as an ace, enjoy or even at times even crave physical contact with other people?

    • Frequently
      47
    • Occasionally
      71
    • Never
      23

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I mentioned this in another poll, but I love being hugged and cuddled and stroked/petted, and most of my romantic desires are centered around this. I prefer clothes on, though.

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I love hugs from family and friends, and even the occasional platonic cuddles.  I do feel kind of lonely if I go without hugs for a long time, and crave some sort of human touch.

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I hate being touched unless it's completely necessary. I wonder how much I would be willing to compromise if I ever find a partner who would be the opposite.

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I'm touch-starved and I love physical contact but only with people I feel comfortable with and there's not a lot of them.

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girlwiththelongskirt

Define physical contact. I enjoy cuddling (it does make me feel weird/doesn't feel right, but at the same time makes me feel kinda loved I guess), sometimes holding hands when I'm very anxious, but I don't crave it.

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I occasionally do feel that touch would be nice.  I like cuddling with my cat, and I sometimes warmly appreciate hugs from family or people I know better.  I think with people I don't know so well I'm a little concerned it might be taken for flirting or something, so that makes me hesitant/wary/avoidant of touch with a lot of people.

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Is there a version of demisexual for touching?  I normally need some sort of connection to not be touch adverse.

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On 6/14/2017 at 9:22 PM, all.that.jazz said:

I read a poll about aces who are touch-averse, and I'm curious about the other way around! Are there other aces who experience touch hunger, or a desire to have (non-intimate) physical contact with people? For me, it doesn't matter who you are, if I know you or not, I will hug you (only if you are alright with it of course). And I'm a complete cuddlebug. Thoughts?

 

Edit: I worded this as "skin hunger" when that's not at all what I meant. 

Yes. Me me me me!

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LunarianLight

I enjoy gentle platonic touching from family members.  Anything more than that and I start to get the heebie jeebies due to sensory issues.  I could pet and cuddle my cat for HOURS, though. :D

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I mainly only like hugging family and close friends. I always hated being touched or held, and it took forever to figure out that I'm cool with it as long as I initiate it ( ask someone to draw on my back, play with my hair, lay my head on a shoulder). But I'll only initiate physical contact with those who already set the precedent, so its kind of a loop. I'll go days without even touching someone and feel fine.

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@all.that.jazz

 

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