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??? Am I grey-ace or Ace ace


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Skully Roses

So like I think I'm grey ace but I also think I'm full ace because like I don't think I have a sex drive but I have had sex and it doesn't feel bad and idk if it's supposed to for full ace people and I have agreed to have sex with my future/current partner(s) to keep them satisfied because they are allosexual and I'm just very unsure

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So the difference between ace and gray ace and allo is sexual attraction, so sex drive doesn't necessarily influence anything. Hope this helps. 

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The main difference is that gray-aces feel fleeting sexual attractions to people (demisexuals fall under gray-ace umbrella) but not enough to call themselves sexual. Sex is something one can do without having sexual attraction as a form of affection for a partner but does not require sexual attraction. Sexual stimulus is also separate from sexual attraction. (for sex repulsed aces please do not read further) Aces of all forms can and some do masturbate and perform various levels of sexual acts out of enjoyment but do not experience sexual attraction. Many aces enjoy sex and again will perform it for a partner's enjoyment as a form of affection. Or a way to spend time, which can be replaced with literally anything else. 

 

Really it's your body and you must always give consent, and your partners need to respect that. 

 

AVEN has many forms that will help you out on that. 

Here'd a few

Sexual attraction:  http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/69810-what-is-sexual-attraction/

Helpful info for those questioning their (a)sexuality: http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/137200-helpful-info-for-those-questioning-their-asexuality/

Sexual orientations: http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/123256-asexuality-sexual-orientation-lexicon-read-me/#comment-1061345333

 

Hopes that helps! Always feel free to ask a mod or ask more questions on any thread. People will help you and support you! 

 

Good luck!! Have some cake!!! :cake::cake::cake:

 

 

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