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Hi, my name is Ansley. I'm a twenty year old girl from Illinois. I've always struggled with my sexuality. I never knew if I was straight, bi, lesbian, pan, etc. It wasn't until very recently that I learned about asexuality and I honestly saw the world clearly for the first time. I first learned about asexuality while watching Ricky Dillon on YouTube (love him :D), and everything fell into place. I've dated a few guys, but whenever things started to get physical, I immediately looked for the relationship exit ramp. I always seemed to convince myself that I just wasn't that into them, when in reality I'm not really into anyone in that way. I still want to be with someone romantically, just not sexually. Anyway, I don't really know of anyone who is asexual in my life, so I thought I would come here and make internet friends! Yay! For a bit of information about who I am: I am a super fangirl of pretty much everything. I love Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Stranger Things, Game of Thrones, Sherlock, and the list pretty much continues to infinity. I love to read, binge watch Netflix, play piano, craft, and have deep conversations with people. Anyway, I can't wait to get to know you guys!

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Hey there :)

 

Ricky Dillon is a legend :D (I'm totally obsessed with YouTube.. yeah.. kind of on there 24/7 :blush:)

I totally relate to that idea of trying to convince yourself that you're "just not that into someone" and panic-rejecting them, good to know there are others out there who feel the same. ':D

All the best wishes for you and hope you're having a lovely day :):cake:

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Hi Ansley! Welcome to AVEN! I'm glad you decided to join, and thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like we share some interests! Feel free to PM me if you're looking for friends or want to talk about anything. Enjoy the forums! :cake:

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Hi! :D I know the feeling of not having any other asexual people in your life - yay for AVEN! :cake:

 

I love all of those TV shows/movies you mentioned... I only just watched Fantastic Beasts and Where To Find Them for the first time the other day, and it was so exciting watching a Harry Potter film for the first time again!! I really miss waiting for them to come out in the cinema, I really felt like I was reliving my childhood haha (I'm only 20... why do I feel so old?) 

 

Hope you enjoy AVEN - I'm pretty new here myself, looking forward to get to know some people! :)

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Hello there, and welcome to AVEN!  :cake:

As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. :) The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message.  Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. 

The following are also nifty links to take a look at:  Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's

 Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped!

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Welcome to AVEN! :cake: Thank you for sharing your story! I'm glad that you joined! : ) You'll meet a lot of awesome and supportive people that can relate to you here. You're interested in a lot of cool things, too, of which I know there are many fans around. (I haven't watched any GoT, but I'm working my way through the books...they're sooooo good!) Take your time exploring, and I hope you enjoy being a member!

 

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Yes cake is nice... But doesn't anybody like biscuits?

(its a joke please don't attack )

 

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Hii! Hope you find what you're looking for! If you want to obsess over Harry Potter with someone I'm your girl! 

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