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asexual males who have had sex?


anthemchant

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hello,

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i'm seeking advice from any male asexuals who have had sex, how did you get aroused and erect without the attraction? were you turned on by the boobs/butts, or did it naturally involuntary just come about?

 

I consider myself heteroromantic, but do eventually want to seek a long term relationship with a girl and have no problem eventually having sex, i'm not repulsed at all by physical contact/ sensual, but I have this fear as a virgin that I may not be able to perform/get erect when the time is right, and this has affected my dating life substantially, this is due to no significant attraction to boobs/butts.

 

i don't feel much attraction to boobs/butts like many other males. i've been masturbating for 10 years (since 13) mostly to pretty fit/muscular athletic girls working out or doing sensual posing and even sexual things with each other, this gets me off highly, but never the straight boobs/butts, so i guess you can say this is my "fetish

 

did  the erection happen naturally, when making out and doing sensual things?

 

i love women and have always been hard wired to crush on them since an early age,  just without the boobs/butts main attraction; i have never felt anything for men, so I am definitely not gay.

 

looking for some advice from asexual males who have had sex in the past willingly and continue to do so.

 

thanks, 

 

 

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Getting erect and staying erect were problems for me back when I was trying to have sex (before I knew about asexuality). It wasn't a physical problem, and I know that for various reasons (suffice it to say my body works, and there is nothing wrong medically). And genitals, boobs, butts, etc., never did much for me that way. I guess you could say the act of sex itself was a turn off for me. Of course, your mileage may vary, as they say.

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^ Pretty much the same. It was very confusing to me and it took me a long time to figure out what's going on. I came to the conclusion "it's not a bug, it's a feature" long before I heard the term asexual.

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