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Can you be aromantic and not know it?


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Hello people,

 

Just quick question for you all : Do you think that you can be aromantic and not know it?

I am still in the process of figuring out all of this but at this point it is fairly clear to me that I am asexual. After my last ("not great") relationship ages ago, it came to my attention that my idea of romanticism my just be a really close and good friendship. Does this mean that I may be aromantic? Any input or help would be great thanks,

 

Auri

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Some people who are cupioromantic never realize they don't feel romantic attraction or crushes, however they want to have relationships even not being able to love others romantically. I guess they get confused about what romantic attraction is and how it's different from "just want a date".

 

A lot of aromantics think they just haven't found the right person yet.

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Yes, some aromantics don't know they're aro, but desiring a relationship that's closer to being a really close/good friendship doesn't automatically mean someone's aromantic. Some people just desire low-key romantic relationships. So the key question more so is, do you get crushes or desire to be in relationships?

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