TheFatDrake Posted June 9, 2017 Share Posted June 9, 2017 I have, I guess, what you could call sexual fantasies based around my own kinks/fetishes, but they are more sensual and no sex happens. Also I've never, successfully, masturbated. I've tried a few times and its just boring and exhausting. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 @TheFatDrake But do you desire to do these kinks with others for sexual arousal? Also, exploring your kinks with someone can result in discovering one's sexuality. And by not being able to masturbate, can you not get sexually aroused? If you do does it go away while stimulating? Link to post Share on other sites
Rhaenys Posted June 11, 2017 Share Posted June 11, 2017 I've fantasized about punching ppl yet I have no desire to become Antifa . In my fantasies it's always attractive characters doing it with other other attractive characters never myself. For me it's just to get rid of that annoying feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
TheFatDrake Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 On 6/10/2017 at 5:05 PM, Star Bit said: @TheFatDrake But do you desire to do these kinks with others for sexual arousal? Also, exploring your kinks with someone can result in discovering one's sexuality. And by not being able to masturbate, can you not get sexually aroused? If you do does it go away while stimulating? @Star Bit 1. Nope. 2. I've explored my kink to very dark territories, still don't want sex. 3. I'm not sure what sexual arousal means. I get erections. It just goes away after awhile. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 It is possible low hormones are causing your masturbatory inability; as them being low can cause lower intensity in sexual arousal and/or orgasm intensity. So for the health problems it can cause, perhaps look up hypothyroid symptoms. It could even be caused by a tumor. Link to post Share on other sites
ben8884 Posted June 12, 2017 Share Posted June 12, 2017 Great thread! I get sexual fantasies,I like them actually although I rarely masturbate. It's kinda like flight, I fantasize about being able to fly even though the reality would be terrible with altitude and such...still nice to fantasize about it though... Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted June 13, 2017 Share Posted June 13, 2017 11 hours ago, Star Bit said: It is possible low hormones are causing your masturbatory inability; as them being low can cause lower intensity in sexual arousal and/or orgasm intensity. So for the health problems it can cause, perhaps look up hypothyroid symptoms. It could even be caused by a tumor. Just to save needless alarm, whilst Star Bit is correct, hypogonadism due to a tumour is a very rare event and usually accompanied by other symptoms Link to post Share on other sites
songchick Posted June 15, 2017 Share Posted June 15, 2017 I have no fantasies. I used to, but fantasies actually distract me. I need to focus on absolutely nothing. Nada. I kind of focus on wanting it to be over when I masturbate. Link to post Share on other sites
ashpenaz Posted July 11, 2017 Author Share Posted July 11, 2017 If I mentally desire sex, I can't be asexual? I don't accept that. That's a boundary you are creating for me, but it has nothing to do with asexuality. Link to post Share on other sites
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