Princess Kandy Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 As an Asexual, the thought of sex doesn't seem fun. But for some reason... some days, grinding (fully clothed) seems fun. I do masturbate so it could be part of that. But i honestly dont know. I would love to hear your opinon/thoughts about the topic. "What's you damage, Heather?" -Veronica Link to post Share on other sites
NerotheReaper Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Welcome to Aven! The idea of humping makes me uncomfortable, but that could just be me not sure. But you do you Link to post Share on other sites
Squirrel Combat Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 I actually probably could manage dry humping. Link to post Share on other sites
sindi Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 The idea sounds surprisingly tolerable, I could even conceivably enjoy it But I've never tried, so I had to pick that option. Link to post Share on other sites
The Mechanic Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 I think I could enjoy it. It sounds kinda fun honestly. Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Wut. No thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Annie9 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 i'm not sure, never tried it but i think if i met the right (asexual) person and if he's willing to try, why not? i might come to enjoy it. Link to post Share on other sites
m4rble Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Well, it does reduce the "ick" factor quite a bit. Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 7 hours ago, m4rble said: Well, it does reduce the "ick" factor quite a bit. Not sure about that I'm pretty sure a male can "get off" that way. I've never had the opportunity to try it. Link to post Share on other sites
m4rble Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 Just now, will123 said: Not sure about that I'm pretty sure a male can "get off" that way. I've never had the opportunity to try it. Some females can probably "get off" that way too. Hopefully it just wouldn't get on me. Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 I can only imagine that it does get "icky" in the literal sense of the word. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 Like dry humping as in desire? (like/enjoy and desire are two different things, they're just commonly felt together) Link to post Share on other sites
Ettina Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 16 hours ago, m4rble said: Some females can probably "get off" that way too. Hopefully it just wouldn't get on me. If they wear something absorbent, then it won't. Link to post Share on other sites
Fox6 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 Dry humping...? *Googles* Oh, that scene from Bad Teacher. 1 hour ago, CBC said: "I like getting off with my boyfriend, but we leave our underwear on. That's still asexual, right?" The asexual version of "if the balls don't touch it's not gay"? Link to post Share on other sites
sindi Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 I've never tried or downright desired dry humping, and I'm not sure how it even happens in practice, but it just sounds like a more tolerable (maybe even fun until you get bored of the novelty factor?) version of sex that I might consider trying, if I was in such a situation. If that makes me less than asexual, whatever. It would still be way more misleading to identify as bisexual, or even gray ace. (and maybe I'm completely mistaken about what dry humping even is. if it's literally just simulating PIV sex as well as you can with clothes on, then no thanks) Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 1 minute ago, sindi said: I've never tried or downright desired dry humping, and I'm not sure how it even happens in practice, but it just sounds like a more tolerable (maybe even fun until you get bored of the novelty factor?) version of sex that I might consider trying, if I was in such a situation. If that makes me less than asexual, whatever. It would still be way more misleading to identify as bisexual, or even gray ace. (and maybe I'm completely mistaken about what dry humping even is. if it's literally just simulating PIV sex as well as you can with clothes on, then no thanks) @sindi That's pretty much it. Link to post Share on other sites
sindi Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 2 minutes ago, will123 said: @sindi That's pretty much it. oh well, my bad for not googling it I also thought that you would be fully clothed, as opposed to having only underwear on. I have enjoyed play fighting before with a guy I liked, and thought that dry humping might be remotely similar (from how it sounded), but apparently not. Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 1 minute ago, sindi said: oh well, my bad for not googling it I also thought that you would be fully clothed, as opposed to having only underwear on. I have enjoyed play fighting before with a guy I liked, and thought that dry humping might be remotely similar (from how it sounded), but apparently not. Sometimes "stuff" gets lost in translation Link to post Share on other sites
Arctangent Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 Yes, I "like" it enough that it's one of the reasons I know I'm not asexual. Link to post Share on other sites
m4rble Posted February 2, 2017 Share Posted February 2, 2017 1 hour ago, sindi said: oh well, my bad for not googling it Never google. Safe-search is not safe enough. Link to post Share on other sites
Ashmedai Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 Moved from Questions about Asexuality to Asexual Musings and Rantings. Tal Shi'ar Co Mod for Questions about Asexuality Link to post Share on other sites
The Mechanic Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 5 hours ago, sindi said: oh well, my bad for not googling it I also thought that you would be fully clothed, as opposed to having only underwear on. I have enjoyed play fighting before with a guy I liked, and thought that dry humping might be remotely similar (from how it sounded), but apparently not. I was thinking of it in terms of being fully clothed too Link to post Share on other sites
Princess Kandy Posted February 3, 2017 Author Share Posted February 3, 2017 57 minutes ago, jackdog1 said: I was thinking of it in terms of being fully clothed too I was too XD I will add that in Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 *boggled mind* Link to post Share on other sites
Adam_Jensen Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 Hell no!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Shadow Heart Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 I wasn't sure what is even was. I've now looked it up....not interested! Link to post Share on other sites
Tja Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 18 hours ago, Fox6 said: The asexual version of "if the balls don't touch it's not gay"? Wet or dry, humping is humping, so, no thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Tja Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 20 hours ago, CBC said: What. Holy shit, what? What is this thread?? Sorry but if you're really into liking dry humping (as opposed to, say, just tolerating it because you're in a relationship with a sexual person who enjoys it), you're not asexual. That's insane. "I like getting off with my boyfriend, but we leave our underwear on. That's still asexual, right?" No. No it is not. Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 And I always thought that humping meant carrying something heavy, like a sack of spuds or some such. *innocentface * Link to post Share on other sites
Private Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 21 hours ago, CBC said: What. Holy shit, what? What is this thread?? Sorry but if you're really into liking dry humping (as opposed to, say, just tolerating it because you're in a relationship with a sexual person who enjoys it), you're not asexual. That's insane. "I like getting off with my boyfriend, but we leave our underwear on. That's still asexual, right?" No. No it is not. You said, what I was thinking. Well stated, IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
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