Hendersonk9 Posted January 19, 2017 Share Posted January 19, 2017 Hi i realised that most of the time I have been engaged in sex I have had to be drunk or using drugs i dread getting into a relationship where I have to sexually perform when I would rather be cooking ,cuddling,discussingor just hanging with a partner this has spoilt several otherwise intimate and close romantic partnerships i have pretended to be sexual but eventually I yearned for close non sexual intimacy Link to post Share on other sites
that1hippie Posted January 20, 2017 Share Posted January 20, 2017 i can relate! i could only tolerate/enjoy sex when under the influence. once i got into recovery i started examining past relationships and realized that what i really wanted was emotional intimacy and rest i just grudgingly put up with. its good to finally be honest with ourselves! welcome Link to post Share on other sites
kelico Posted January 20, 2017 Share Posted January 20, 2017 Welcome to AVEN! Thank you for joining and introducing yourself! : ) You're not alone. There are a lot of people that can relate to you here. Take your time exploring the site, and I wish you all the best! I hope you enjoy being a member. Link to post Share on other sites
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