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Hi

i realised that most of the time I have been engaged in sex I have had to be drunk or using drugs

i dread getting into a relationship where I have to sexually perform when I would rather be cooking ,cuddling,discussingor just hanging with a partner

this has spoilt several otherwise intimate and close romantic partnerships

i have pretended to be sexual but eventually I yearned for close non sexual intimacy

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i can relate! i could only tolerate/enjoy sex when under the influence. once i got into recovery i started examining past relationships and realized that what i really wanted was emotional intimacy and rest i just grudgingly put up with. its good to finally be honest with ourselves! welcome :cake:

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Welcome to AVEN! :cake: Thank you for joining and introducing yourself! : ) You're not alone. There are a lot of people that can relate to you here. Take your time exploring the site, and I wish you all the best! I hope you enjoy being a member.

 

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