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Alrighty, so I'm having a problem. I'm hypersexual but the idea of sex makes me anxious and unhappy and uncomfortable a lot of times ,,, it goes back and forth but a lot of times im uncomfortable with it. I read porn and mastrubate, and I think sex can be great, but a lot of times it's hard to see myself in it, and it makes me really uncomfortable. Even hearing about sex can make me really anxious and off.  Am I just an average human or am I on the ace spectrum? And if so; where??

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I'm not sure what you mean by hypersexual. Do you mean that you have a high libido and feel a strong urge to masturbate and/or look at porn very frequently? If so, you could be asexual as long as you don't ever have the desire to have sex with another person. On the other hand, if you are saying that you have a compelling urge to have partnered sex on a frequent basis, that clearly is not a form of asexuality. Asexuality is zero intrinsic desire for partnered sex ever.

 

A sexual person can definitely have mixed feelings about sex. They could be in an unhealthy sexual relationship or have an unhealthy pattern of sexual behavior. They could have been raised with negative attitudes about sex and have a lot of guilt or shame to work through. They could suffer from anxiety that affects their love life. They could have gotten their heart broken and not be over it. But none of that has anything to do with asexuality.

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