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I re-upped on the site today. I signed up several years ago and lurked but I wasn't able to find my old account.

 

I'm in my fifties and have never been interested in sex. I've had a lot of female friends over the years, but that's all I was interested in being friends. I've never had any desire to have sex.

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Welcome back to AVEN! :cake: I'm glad you decided to sign up again. If you have any clue about your previous account, you can contact an Admin about it. : ) Thanks for your intro! You'll find many people that can relate to you!! I hope you enjoy being a member~

 

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19 hours ago, kelico said:

Welcome back to AVEN! :cake: I'm glad you decided to sign up again. If you have any clue about your previous account, you can contact an Admin about it. : ) Thanks for your intro! You'll find many people that can relate to you!! I hope you enjoy being a member~

 

 

Kelico, I don't think I'm losing much by restarting because I think I just lurked around a bit. I think it was during a hectic time in my life and my visits to the site declined. Not sure how I found out about the site ('08 to '11), but I'm thinking it was a mention in a newspaper.

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Thanks folks for the welcome wishes. I've enjoyed reading other members' experiences & glad to find out that feeling asexual is nothing to be upset about.

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One more thing, I hope folks aren't bothered by me posting all over. I guess I'm just releasing a lot of pent up feelings that I've kept a lid on over the years. Having a place like this is a wonderful place to put things to "paper" even if nobody reads it ;-) (At least for me).

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As I've surfed around AVEN, I've noticed some people are very explicit and descriptive in their identity while others only identify as asexual. Up to this point I've only mentioned that I was asexual as I wasn't quite sure/familiar with some of the terminology.

 

Well now I feel comfortable expanding on my profile. In this dialogue, I'll add a number corresponding to how I feel about that characteristic/identity. One being weak/low up to 10 being strong/high.

 

Asexual - 10 (nothing to add)

Aromantic - 1 At times I might entertain thoughts of being friendls with a female, but under very guarded conditions

Autosexual (using a definition here on AVEN):

" A person who is sexually attracted to oneself" 0 - .5 These thoughts may/may have occurred at certain times

"A person who can experience sexual satisfaction mainly through masturbation" 10 As any of you that have read my content are                                  probably well aware.

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  • 3 months later...

Checking out the archives and I'm pretty sure it was around '05 when I found out about asexuality. I was able to find the link to the article that I had probably read which included the mention of AVEN.

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