• Announcements

    • Kisa the Cat

      World Watch Archiving Project

      Hello everyone, Please read this thread before posting to World Watch Thank you.
    • Kelly

      New Moderator needed: Voting   04/27/17

      Voting has started. See:   http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/158397-new-moderator-needed-for-announcements-and-qa-co-mod-voting/  
    • Kisa the Cat

      Avenues May/June   05/09/17

      Hello AVENites! The newest edition of AVENues is now ready! Our theme this time was "ace connections".  May/June
Guest And Peggy

Comments made by sexual people

135 posts in this topic

"But sex is fun!!!" - yeah... and so is jogging (people told me so) but I hate it anyway. 

"Why do you say that person is hot?? I thought you were asexual!" - I am but I ain't blind.

"I'm soooo in love!! I wanna kiss him/her and my tummy feels soo weird but soo good! Aw I can only think about her/him!!" - ok.. are you alright or.. I dunno... 

 

And the list go on and go...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Roleplaying is fun, I am a natural born dice-roller... I had many relationships in D&D ;) and in my fantasy...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I tell people that I really like the sublimity of classical music, and that it takes me to places that are bliss.  I used to think that relationships with people were like this too.  When I told people that I'd like to recreate this dynamic in an intimate relationship, people got really confused.  "You can't really do that with a person."  Then I sort of got confused too.  This isn't really an annoying thing that sexuals say per say, but...still a miscommunication of sorts.

 

As for annoying things, it's bothersome when people try to do conversion therapy on me.  Not working.  No awareness either.  

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 12/31/2016 at 0:31 PM, yourcaptaiin said:

[After explaining that I'm heteroromantic]

"But how can you be straight and asexual?"

TOTALLY.........

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 6/15/2017 at 7:52 AM, Elliot-loves-cookies said:

"Why do you say that person is hot?? I thought you were asexual!" - I am but I ain't blind.

OMG this happens to me ALL THE TIME!!! soooo annoying

2 people like this

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I was rolling my eyes so hard when I was watching a movie with my bestie. There was such a sexually packed scene and I was so exasperated. Then she asked "Isn't that guy handsome?"

"Nah, I don't see it."

"C'mon. You can't tell me he isn't!"

"I'm not saying he isn't, I'm saying I can't personally see it, but I know why you think he's hot, besides, I was too taken by the fact of just HOW extremely sexual this scene was–"

"Says the ace."

 

Shame I didn't say anything ablut how "I'm ace not dumb" or somesuch... I was too annoyed. Plus she was asking an asexual if the guy was hot. C'mon you, ffs!

2 people like this

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

"Are you gay?"    -usually from ignorant straight men 

"You'll meet someone"    -followed by my assurance that I'm not worried if or when I "meet someone"

"You're a good looking guy, why don't you have a girlfriend?"    -This one is flattering I admit, but still annoying to hear

2 people like this

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

"Asexual?! What a shame, because you're SO sexy..."

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
5 hours ago, InariYana said:

"Asexual?! What a shame, because you're SO sexy..."

Vomit. 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

This is title change that's supposed to combat negative content that ppl were making a fuss about? *sighs* :mellow:

 

 Anyway I've gotten:

"Haha so you're a nun!"

"We need to put you in a convent."

 "So you don't like sex? I'm sorry for you."

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

"Were you abused or something?"

"You're a disappointment."

"Don't limit yourself."

"Everyone loves sex."

"Are you sure you're human?"

"How can you be in/have a relationship?"

"Don't knock it 'til you try it."

"Why can't you be more like your brother?"

"That's not a thing."

"So you're a virgin?"

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

You are not normal

But sex is too wonderful! You will go crazy with pleasure.

How do you hate it if you've never had it?

You will want it with the right person

You're too hot to not have any interest in sex

So no procreation?

Are you a virgin?

Ah, got it. It must be cause you are religious..(bitch what)

 

2 people like this

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 3/7/2017 at 0:02 AM, Hey you in the corner said:

"Asexual?! What a shame, because you're so sexy..."

  Vomit

Lost the count of how many times guys have said this to me. And I cannot even stand the word "sexy"..lol.

1 person likes this

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
On 5/2/2017 at 2:28 AM, AsexualMemeTrash said:

"You can't be asexual because in order to feel pleasure, you need to feel attraction."  ~dickhole of a friend. 

 

 

What about you tell your friend romantic and sexual attraction are not the same thing xD..And the former gives pleasure as well. No need to have someone's privates jamming between your twins to feel pleasure..jesus christ.

1 person likes this

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

"That's called celibacy"

"This will change when you meet the right person"

"It's just a phase"

"That's not humanly possible"

"That's not what asexual means"

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!


Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.


Sign In Now