Guest And Peggy Posted December 26, 2016 Share Posted December 26, 2016 1. How do you know if you've never tried it? 2.Its just a phase! 3. You're too young to know! And many, many more. Link to post Share on other sites
lec16 Posted December 26, 2016 Share Posted December 26, 2016 You'll meet someone who will make you want sex. It's not a real romantic relationship without sex. You just have so much self-control and you must be so productive! I wish I could be asexual! I didn't know that was a legitimate choice! Any quote from anyone who feels entitled to sex, ever. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliJones Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 "When you get married..." or "When you have kids..." Link to post Share on other sites
bsloths Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 Two constant ones from my own experience: "He/she is so smart/nice/attractive, I can't believe they're still single!" "I should set you up with ..." Link to post Share on other sites
emma-can Posted December 28, 2016 Share Posted December 28, 2016 22 hours ago, CaliJones said: "When you get married..." or "When you have kids..." Mm yes I love when they skip "if" and go straight to "when." Link to post Share on other sites
rayngel Posted December 28, 2016 Share Posted December 28, 2016 "wait til you meet "the one", then you'll change your mind" "You can't be asexual, you told me he/she was attractive!' Link to post Share on other sites
thylacine Posted December 29, 2016 Share Posted December 29, 2016 ... and my all time favorite... "You just need a good rape to straighten you out." Link to post Share on other sites
Ruru+Saphhy=Garnet Posted December 29, 2016 Share Posted December 29, 2016 "Sex is SO great!!!!!!!! Sex is SO BEAUTIFUL! HOW CAN YOU SAY YOU HAVE NO INTEREST IN IT?!" "YOU MUST BE SICK. " "EVERYONE LOVES SEX!" Link to post Share on other sites
SorryNotSorry Posted December 29, 2016 Share Posted December 29, 2016 "The desire to have sex/kids will creep up on you." "Don't you feel... shortchanged?" (this with the kind of pitiful look you'd give a dying friend) Link to post Share on other sites
WiseOwl17 Posted December 30, 2016 Share Posted December 30, 2016 "That's not a thing" (referring to asexuality) "You'll grow out of it" "Don't label yourself" "[Insert romantic interest's name here] would disagree!" (All of these said to me by the same person!) Link to post Share on other sites
Eligrace52 Posted December 31, 2016 Share Posted December 31, 2016 "That's not really an orientation, everyone feels uncomfortable with hyper sexualization" Link to post Share on other sites
carbomb Posted December 31, 2016 Share Posted December 31, 2016 [After explaining that I'm heteroromantic] "But how can you be straight and asexual?" Link to post Share on other sites
Nea Rose Symphony Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 From someone I had known in high school and talked to through FB messenger last year: "You'll find someone" From my bf (maybe ex soon): "We're in the prime of our lives! How can you not want sex?" *gets incredibly frustrated and angry, and I'm just there feeling awkward* Link to post Share on other sites
tgif Posted January 2, 2017 Share Posted January 2, 2017 This happened to me recently Her: So, do you have a boyfriend? Me: Uh.. no.. Her: Oh okay, so you're like more academically driven. I'm the same way. Link to post Share on other sites
InfiniteHeart Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 4 hours ago, Cetasoul said: From my bf (maybe ex soon): "We're in the prime of our lives! How can you not want sex?" *gets incredibly frustrated and angry, and I'm just there feeling awkward* My bf's exact words! He even said he feels like some elderly couple and I need to get my hormones checked or something... Link to post Share on other sites
Nea Rose Symphony Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 8 minutes ago, Cosmic_Maven said: My bf's exact words! He even said he feels like some elderly couple and I need to get my hormones checked or something... As if being like an elderly couple is a bad thing. And as if all elderly couples don't have sex ever Link to post Share on other sites
Laplace Posted January 3, 2017 Share Posted January 3, 2017 "You need to get laid." - No, you need to STFU. Or: "You're not a 'real' adult if you're still a virgin." - I'm 22, and that legally makes me an adult. Or the "insult" of ignoramuses worldwide: "You're just a virgin nerd." - The choice was voluntary morons; you aren't insulting me. Besides, a whole bunch of people love video games and "nerdy" stuff. Or everyone's favorite personal question: "Do you masturbate?" - Is this just something you go up to someone and ask these days? Like WTF. Link to post Share on other sites
Hollieee Posted January 4, 2017 Share Posted January 4, 2017 "I'm sure your time will come" Like I'm just falling behind everyone else or something? "How do you know if you've never tried to be with someone?" I have 'tried' dating. It made me uncomfortable. "You can't complain that you're lonely because you're not with anyone if you're ace" Because somehow that makes me immune from loneliness, like I'm not watching everyone I've ever known meet other people now. "I never wanted marriage and babies when I Was younger, you'll change your mind" Ok. Good for you. Link to post Share on other sites
dragon_nerd Posted January 6, 2017 Share Posted January 6, 2017 "Oh, you're just a late bloomer." "It's just a phase." "Come on, you're actually gay aren't you?" "You're too pretty/attractive to be celibate." "If you keep on telling people that you'll never get laid." Once person accepts and/or understands what asexuality is: "So, how do you masturbate?" "So, why do you dress so nicely/wear makeup/work out?" (delete as appropriate) Link to post Share on other sites
broom_closet_ace Posted January 7, 2017 Share Posted January 7, 2017 "Someone will come along who will change your mind" "You just havent found the right one" "So your trying to tell me your kinda...just there or something?" "One day..." Literally follow that last line with anything sexual related and i garuntee its offensive Link to post Share on other sites
Florenna Posted January 8, 2017 Share Posted January 8, 2017 These from a guy (man) I was really interested in, and stayed the night at his place but didn't want to have sex with him - his comments afterwards: "Your behaviour is like women's liberation never happened." "When a woman comes to my bed, it's (or should be) obvious that sex will happen." That whole "women's liberation" thing, like you're obviously somehow sexually repressed, like a Victorian puritan or something, if you just don't want to have sex, at any given time or place (or possibly never)... Jeez! Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted January 8, 2017 Share Posted January 8, 2017 On 7.1.2017 at 8:54 AM, broom_closet_ace said: "So your trying to tell me your kinda...just there or something?" Link to post Share on other sites
straightouttamordor Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Don't know if you ever heard this one. Maybe it's a southern thing. " If it weren't for the penis/vagina ( I'm using clinical terms here not the slang) there would be a bounty out on every one of them ( men/women). Your purpose on this earth is purely sexual as far as relationships. They say this straight too not just drunk or heart broken. 🚻 Link to post Share on other sites
Nebulous Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 The most annoying statement for me by far is "you just haven't met the right person", or some other variation. I just want to yell back, "maybe you're homosexual and haven't met the right person yet." I mean, by this logic, every person could have a different orientation than what they identify as. Link to post Share on other sites
EndlessEra Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I once had someone say to me, "Wait...so you still think people are attractive? How does that work?" This was followed by, "You think cats are cute, right? How can you tell?" Link to post Share on other sites
Nidwin Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Fuck you / Screw you. Nope. That's your thing, not mine! Link to post Share on other sites
Username_2017 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 On 08/01/2017 at 1:46 PM, Florenna said: "When a woman comes to my bed, it's (or should be) obvious that sex will happen." That's a disgusting attitude, that is how rape can occur. Link to post Share on other sites
Adam_Jensen Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I hate it when they boast about their sex life.Ok sure you rubbed you genitals unto some else's genitals,do you also know that humans have been doing this since the dawn of time?? They're acting like they achieved elite status or something when in reality they did and achived nothing special. Or when they take pride because they had many sex partners.If they take pride for something like this then their lifes must be pretty boring. Link to post Share on other sites
Private Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 1 minute ago, Adam_Jensen said: I hate it when they boast about their sex life.Ok sure you rubbed you genitals unto some else's genitals,do you also know that humans have been doing this since the dawn of time?? They're acting like they achieved elite status or something when in reality they did and achived nothing special. Or when they take pride because they had many sex partners.If they take pride for something like this then their lifes must be pretty boring. I agree. So they had sex. So what? Why must they broadcast it. It's not like they did something special or something any human being can not do, if they want to. Link to post Share on other sites
WobblyWallaby Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I was recently told that no one would want me if I didn't have sex with them. This came from my grandfather and I told him that anyone who only wanted sex out of a relationship is not the one for me. Link to post Share on other sites
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