30050 Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 A few months ago, I posted about being very tempted to masturbate over people I respect, which is something I don't want to do: I don't like my sexual side, and thus, I don't want to act upon sexual thoughts toward people I respect - I want my opinion of these people to be purely based on admiration and not sexual desires, even though I am sexually attracted to some of them (sorry if that's confusing) However, recently, I'm started to realise that my normal self and my sexual self are two completely different sides to my personality. For example, the way I think and act is completely different depending on whether I am horny or not. Therefore, I am tempted to masturbate over the people I respect because that would be satisfying my sexual side, that is completely separate from the respect my normal self has for them. Besides, I can't deny the fact I am sexually attracted to some of these people Looking for any advice or thoughts or any kind Quote Link to post Share on other sites
sindi Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 Why not imagine up completely fictional people for your fantasies, that way there wouldn't be any awkwardness. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
30050 Posted December 8, 2016 Author Share Posted December 8, 2016 27 minutes ago, sindi said: Why not imagine up completely fictional people for your fantasies, that way there wouldn't be any awkwardness. I mean, it's not necessarily awkwardness - I don't know any of these people in real life (they're all in the public eye) And to be honest, if I'm going to imagine these fictional people based on the qualities I find arousing, I may as well masturbate to these people anyway Quote Link to post Share on other sites
sindi Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 Just now, 30050 said: I mean, it's not necessarily awkwardness - I don't know any of these people in real life (they're all in the public eye) And to be honest, if I'm going to imagine these fictional people based on the qualities I find arousing, I may as well masturbate to these people anyway Go for it then! I thought the people were someone you knew in real life... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 This sounds totally normal, most people get those fleeting thoughts about others, masturbate to them then it's not thought of again. Nobody will know what's going on in your thoughts, nor the inner most thoughts of each other and no respect should not be lost simply of any sexual thought for which is normal. Friends, family, co-workers, celebrity... anywhere between love and hate in thought happens often and normally. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
30050 Posted December 8, 2016 Author Share Posted December 8, 2016 23 minutes ago, Janus DarkFox said: This sounds totally normal, most people get those fleeting thoughts about others, masturbate to them then it's not thought of again. Nobody will know what's going on in your thoughts, nor the inner most thoughts of each other and no respect should not be lost simply of any sexual thought for which is normal. Friends, family, co-workers, celebrity... anywhere between love and hate in thought happens often and normally. Thanks a lot for the advice Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted December 9, 2016 Share Posted December 9, 2016 Some peoples sexual and non-sexual self are very different and that's fine (ya know, as long as it's safe and consensual). Some people are normally meek but sexually aggressive. Whatever it is, it sounds normal. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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