TheStoicOne Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 I'm a 21 year old man and a Virgin. Unlike most men my age I am completely okay with that and really don't have any desire to lose it. I find women physically attractive and sometimes fantasize about dating but never about sex, at least not seriously anyway, and honestly even beauty and dating are starting to seem less and less apealing. The number of crushes I've had in my life could literally be counted on one hand and people in high school would sometimes ask me who I liked or why they never see me with girls and I just told them that I didn't like anyone. There was this one girl who was flirting with me and i was told she liked me, I didnt see her very often because of her work schedlue so i never really got the chance to ask her out or for her phone number. Eventually i heard that she had gotten back togther with her old boyfriend and i was honestly relieved to hear this news because it ment that I wouldnt have to worry about flirting,courting,dating etcetra. Ive seen way too many relationships grow bitter and die painfully to be convinced that romance is more important than friendship, which is another thing that I struggle with. Frankly, I find sex to be disgusting , oral in particular is especially revolting to me. I often can't even watch sex scenes in media because they make me uncomfortable, especially if there's nudity involved. I don't watch porn, unless you consider the occasional strip tease to be porn, and when I feel the need for a wank, I use instagram because, again, I don't like nudity. I often get told that I'm very attractive and that I could have any girl I wanted if I werever more social and outgoing. I'm not boasting at all, but I do catch alot of women checking me out and asking my friends about me so that could be true. I have Aspergers Syndrome and am somewhat reclusive so naturally, Ive never made a move on any of them, partially because I'm also mildly gynophobic and they make me rather nervous. Just some facts and thoughts about myself. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheStoicOne Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 I'm a 21 year old man and a Virgin. Unlike most men my age I am completely okay with that and really don't have any desire to lose it. I find women physically attractive and sometimes fantasize about dating but never about sex, at least not seriously anyway, and honestly even beauty and dating are starting to seem less and less apealing. The number of crushes I've had in my life could literally be counted on one hand and people in high school would sometimes ask me who I liked or why they never see me with girls and I just told them that I didn't like anyone. There was this one girl who was flirting with me and i was told she liked me, I didnt see her very often because of her work schedlue so i never really got the chance to ask her out or for her phone number. Eventually i heard that she had gotten back togther with her old boyfriend and i was honestly relieved to hear this news because it ment that I wouldnt have to worry about flirting,courting,dating etcetra. Ive seen way too many relationships grow bitter and die painfully to be convinced that romance is more important than friendship, which is another thing that I struggle with. Frankly, I find sex to be disgusting , oral in particular is especially revolting to me. I often can't even watch sex scenes in media because they make me uncomfortable, especially if there's nudity involved. I don't watch porn, unless you consider the occasional strip tease to be porn, and when I feel the need for a wank, I use instagram because, again, I don't like nudity. I often get told that I'm very attractive and that I could have any girl I wanted if I werever more social and outgoing. I'm not boasting at all, but I do catch alot of women checking me out and asking my friends about me so that could be true. I have Aspergers Syndrome and am somewhat reclusive so naturally, Ive never made a move on any of them, partially because I'm also mildly gynophobic and they make me rather nervous. Just some facts and thoughts about myself. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheStoicOne Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 I accidently posted this three times. How do I delete the others? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheStoicOne Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 And I may have posted it in the wrong section :( Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Anne Thrope Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Don't worry about the repeats - a mod will take care of them. (This happens often). And if this isn't in the right section, it will be moved. So really, don't sweat over that stuff. As for what you were saying in your original post, yeah, it does sound like you might be an asexual, and a sex repulsed one. I suggest that you spend some time around this site and see if you feel comfortable with that label (if so, welcome to the club, and if not, that's okay, you're still welcome here!) I hope you find your time here to be good! Have some cake: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Icelime Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 It seems to me, that you might just be asexual;Because it seems that you don't want anything to do with sex from what I'm reading... I'm a 21 year old man and a Virgin. Unlike most men my age I am completely okay with that and really don't have any desire to lose it. I find women physically attractive and sometimes fantasize about dating but never about sex, at least not seriously anyway, and honestly even beauty and dating are starting to seem less and less apealing. The number of crushes I've had in my life could literally be counted on one hand and people in high school would sometimes ask me who I liked or why they never see me with girls and I just told them that I didn't like anyone. There was this one girl who was flirting with me and i was told she liked me, I didnt see her very often because of her work schedlue so i never really got the chance to ask her out or for her phone number. Eventually i heard that she had gotten back togther with her old boyfriend and i was honestly relieved to hear this news because it ment that I wouldnt have to worry about flirting,courting,dating etcetra. Ive seen way too many relationships grow bitter and die painfully to be convinced that romance is more important than friendship, which is another thing that I struggle with.Frankly, I find sex to be disgusting , oral in particular is especially revolting to me. I often can't even watch sex scenes in media because they make me uncomfortable, especially if there's nudity involved. I don't watch porn, unless you consider the occasional strip tease to be porn, and when I feel the need for a wank, I use instagram because, again, I don't like nudity.I often get told that I'm very attractive and that I could have any girl I wanted if I werever more social and outgoing. I'm not boasting at all, but I do catch alot of women checking me out and asking my friends about me so that could be true. I have Aspergers Syndrome and am somewhat reclusive so naturally, Ive never made a move on any of them, partially because I'm also mildly gynophobic and they make me rather nervous.Just some facts and thoughts about myself. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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