Katerin Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 Do you enjoy kissing or the idea of it - or is it something that makes you uncomfortable? Kissing could range from pecks or French kissing. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 I'm not non-Iib, but kissing has nothing to do with your abiIity to become aroused/need to orgasm (though for some peopIe they are Iinked!). PeopIe with no Iibido can desire to kiss romanticaIIy, just as there are those who have a Iibido who do not wish to kiss :3 (Iibido is more the need to have an orgasm through masturbation or partnered sex, kissing and romantic desire are separate from that) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Katerin Posted September 29, 2016 Author Share Posted September 29, 2016 I'm not non-Iib, but kissing has nothing to do with your abiIity to become aroused/need to orgasm (though for some peopIe they are Iinked!). PeopIe with no Iibido can desire to kiss romanticaIIy, just as there are those who have a Iibido who do not wish to kiss :3 (Iibido is more the need to have an orgasm through masturbation or partnered sex, kissing and romantic desire are separate from that) This answer was perf (/^o^)/ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 I'm not non-Iib, but kissing has nothing to do with your abiIity to become aroused/need to orgasm (though for some peopIe they are Iinked!). PeopIe with no Iibido can desire to kiss romanticaIIy, just as there are those who have a Iibido who do not wish to kiss :3 (Iibido is more the need to have an orgasm through masturbation or partnered sex, kissing and romantic desire are separate from that) This answer was perf (/^o^)/ GIad my answer heIped ^_^ Is that you in your pic? I'm super jeIIy of you if it is you haha, you're so pretty and your gIasses Iook great!! This wiII be awkward if it's not you, but whoever she is, she's purdy :3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Katerin Posted September 29, 2016 Author Share Posted September 29, 2016 I'm not non-Iib, but kissing has nothing to do with your abiIity to become aroused/need to orgasm (though for some peopIe they are Iinked!). PeopIe with no Iibido can desire to kiss romanticaIIy, just as there are those who have a Iibido who do not wish to kiss :3 (Iibido is more the need to have an orgasm through masturbation or partnered sex, kissing and romantic desire are separate from that) This answer was perf (/^o^)/ GIad my answer heIped ^_^ Is that you in your pic? I'm super jeIIy of you if it is you haha, you're so pretty and your gIasses Iook great!! This wiII be awkward if it's not you, but whoever she is, she's purdy :3 I'm not non-Iib, but kissing has nothing to do with your abiIity to become aroused/need to orgasm (though for some peopIe they are Iinked!). PeopIe with no Iibido can desire to kiss romanticaIIy, just as there are those who have a Iibido who do not wish to kiss :3 (Iibido is more the need to have an orgasm through masturbation or partnered sex, kissing and romantic desire are separate from that) This answer was perf (/^o^)/ GIad my answer heIped ^_^ Is that you in your pic? I'm super jeIIy of you if it is you haha, you're so pretty and your gIasses Iook great!! This wiII be awkward if it's not you, but whoever she is, she's purdy :3 'Tis me :3 Oh my glerb ≧ω≦ Thank you! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sally Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 I'm beginning to think that it's a trait of young asexuals to be beautiful/handsome. I say "young" because I don't think I've seen photos of older asexuals on the photo thread. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
deltaX Posted September 29, 2016 Share Posted September 29, 2016 I was going to answer this, but Pan already said pretty much everything I was going to say ^_^ 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
binary suns Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 I don't find kissing to be sexual or romantic. I enjoy the way it feels, and it's kinda fun to observe the dynamic of two people trying to get it to work. I mean, not that it normally doesn't, but it's kinda neat to think about how this is a complex thing yet our brains can handle it so naturally. I mean, that's the thought I have now trying to explain why the experience is fun for me. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
binary suns Posted September 30, 2016 Share Posted September 30, 2016 double post oops. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SapphireSoul Posted October 1, 2016 Share Posted October 1, 2016 Although I'm not non-libidoist, I have never felt the urge to kiss someone. While I don't think it'd be unpleasant necessarily, I also don't understand the desire to kiss someone. Dunno if that helps answer your question or not. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kim Yuno Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 Although being asexual, I really enjoy kissing and want to do it. I have straight boyfriend, I know what he wants, but I don't want to. But kissing and even french way is something I really like to do with him. I'm never turned on to have sex but kinda turn on to kiss and cuddle Like I am very heteroromantic and want romantic relation, so kissing, cuddlind etc is the way for me to create relationship. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sera1001 Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 Hmm.. I'm not sure if i'm a non-libidoist though but i probably am. Though, i kinda do have the desire to kiss someone but never on the lips.. Uhh 0-0 ... I just realized that i never wanted to kiss people. Except if it's on the cheek since it's pretty friendly. Like, i want my kiss people on the cheek but doesn't want it reciprocatedXD I don't want it to touch their face either.. Only the idea of kissing them or pouting my lips towards them is what i do a lot.. Am i making sense? I NEVER WANTED TO KISS SOMEONE 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Yatogami Posted July 7, 2017 Share Posted July 7, 2017 On 9/29/2016 at 0:22 AM, Katerin said: Do you enjoy kissing or the idea of it - or is it something that makes you uncomfortable? Kissing could range from pecks or French kissing. Out of curiosity perhaps. I personally think its gross, but tolerable. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Some might, some wouldn't. Wouldn't say they're connected. Personally, I've always been more partial to hugs. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Digs_Dead_People Posted July 8, 2017 Share Posted July 8, 2017 Light pecks and gentle kisses are fine and sometimes I desire them when in a relationship, but making out grosses me the hell out even if I'm head-over-heels for the other person. I have a thing about saliva in general, though, so I'm not entirely certain if it's connected to my libido level or my being asexual. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Autumn Season Posted July 9, 2017 Share Posted July 9, 2017 I'm like @Sera1001 and @Yato God of Tofu: I like kissing as long as it's NOT on the lips/ my face and normal kisses (with or without tongue) are OK, but also a bit gross. And I don't have a libido. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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