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What is my sexual orientation? Is there even a sexual orientation for this?


Nico the Ghost Queen

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Nico the Ghost Queen

Another thread questioning my identify lol.

Idk what my sexual orientation is. I want to do some sexual stuff with people and I feel sexual attraction to people but I don't want sex.

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The difference between asexual and sexual folk is desiring sexual contact - sexual folk desire it for their own emotional and/or physical pleasure, whereas that desire is absent in asexuals.

Whether or not you desire aspects of foreplay, or different acts of sex rather than penetrative sex (which is what I gathered from what you wrote) is irrelevant. Everyone has preferences when it comes to sex.

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What kind of sexual stuff fo you want to do? Considering you feel sexual attraction, and want some sexual interaction I would say you're a sexual who are repulsed to intercourse. Yes that's entirely possible.

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One Winged Angel

​It is against the rules of AVEN for other members to label you or tell you what your orientation is.

However, you have written that you feel sexual attraction, and feel a desire to do "sexual stuff with people." This is not in any way suggestive of Asexuality.

Whether you desire traditional sexual activity, or whether your desires are for something different which may or may not include 'sex' in a textbook manner is a moot point.

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Completely depends on what 'sexual' things you want.

And by sexual attraction you mean the impulse to have sex with specific people, correct?

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What do you call "sexual stuff" and what do you call "sex", precisely ?

Because sex doesn't require a penis and a vagina. If you prefer things such as oral, it's still sexual desire, not less sexual at all, and this type of preference is actually very common.

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I just call myself grey tbh. I definitely feel sexual attraction sometimes, and with some people physical touching is very arousing for me, and I like this, and sometimes feel a need for it with people I'm attracted to. but sex itself actually kills my mood. even thinking about sex makes me shudder usually...

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You're 14, your orientation is most likely still developing and will be more conclusive at 17 to 20.

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