Nico the Ghost Queen Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Another thread questioning my identify lol. Idk what my sexual orientation is. I want to do some sexual stuff with people and I feel sexual attraction to people but I don't want sex. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dissolved Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 The difference between asexual and sexual folk is desiring sexual contact - sexual folk desire it for their own emotional and/or physical pleasure, whereas that desire is absent in asexuals. Whether or not you desire aspects of foreplay, or different acts of sex rather than penetrative sex (which is what I gathered from what you wrote) is irrelevant. Everyone has preferences when it comes to sex. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThaHoward Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 What kind of sexual stuff fo you want to do? Considering you feel sexual attraction, and want some sexual interaction I would say you're a sexual who are repulsed to intercourse. Yes that's entirely possible. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
One Winged Angel Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 It is against the rules of AVEN for other members to label you or tell you what your orientation is. However, you have written that you feel sexual attraction, and feel a desire to do "sexual stuff with people." This is not in any way suggestive of Asexuality. Whether you desire traditional sexual activity, or whether your desires are for something different which may or may not include 'sex' in a textbook manner is a moot point. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Salted Karamel Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Have you looked into lithosexuality? I'm under the impression its definition matches what you've described. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Completely depends on what 'sexual' things you want. And by sexual attraction you mean the impulse to have sex with specific people, correct? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rising Sun Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 What do you call "sexual stuff" and what do you call "sex", precisely ? Because sex doesn't require a penis and a vagina. If you prefer things such as oral, it's still sexual desire, not less sexual at all, and this type of preference is actually very common. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
binary suns Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 I just call myself grey tbh. I definitely feel sexual attraction sometimes, and with some people physical touching is very arousing for me, and I like this, and sometimes feel a need for it with people I'm attracted to. but sex itself actually kills my mood. even thinking about sex makes me shudder usually... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted September 20, 2016 Share Posted September 20, 2016 You're 14, your orientation is most likely still developing and will be more conclusive at 17 to 20. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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