Bella the friendly kitten Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 Is it possible to identify as asexual, bicuddly, and heteroromantic? It feels right but seems really contradictory. Also, is "bicuddly" a legitimate orientation or is that just silly? I'm confused. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bella the friendly kitten Posted September 5, 2016 Author Share Posted September 5, 2016 Is it possible to identify as asexual, bicuddly, and heteroromantic? It feels right but seems really contradictory. Also, is "bicuddly" a legitimate orientation or is that just silly? I'm confused. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
King Al Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 What is bicuddly? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mikeman7918 Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 I don't see why not. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 I assume it means they want to cuddle with both women and men. But really there's no need to call it anything because it's just normal (i.e. if you just want to cuddle and don't want a lasting relationship/QPR with them). Calling it cuddly is silly but i have heard of bisensual used on people who desire sensual QPRs i.e. relationships that have platonic physical contact above the norm. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
King Al Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 Huh. If that's a thing then I'm pancuddly. I hug men, women, neither, both and everything in between. :P Definitely don't think it's an orientation though. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sylvastor Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 Maybe calling it bisensual makes more sense, unless you don't think it would fit the definition of sensual attraction/desire in your case. But with bicuddly, I'm not sure if people would take that seriously due to the way it sounds. ;) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FlaafyTaffy Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 It's a bit silly and unnecessary. You are just more open with your affections and it's not just limited to one sex. Cuddling doesn't have to be a romantic thing, it's not romantic to everyone. It's just a way to show affection. Being heteroromantic asexual is a just fine label. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nanogretchen4 Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 It's all in the delivery. It's fine if you say it as a joke. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpy Alien Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 -cuddly isn't an orientation so it's not really a legitimate label, no. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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