fierfly10 Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 Hello! So Im new to asexuality and Im not really sure if I might be asexual. Okay so I don't like the idea of me having sex or someone seeing me naked but I do watch porn sometimes and it does turn me on. Also sometimes I do fantasize about having sex but its always in third person and someone I dont know (like a fictional character). I found the therm autochorisexual and it fits me quite well but I have so many questions. Ive also never really loved anyone. Im not sure if what I felt towards my last boyfriend was love or something completely different, on some days I did love him, but on some he was really more like a friend. I do want to have relationships but so many people want sex but I dont and its really awkward when the other person wants to get a little more sexual and all I want is to cuddle. For a long time Ive felt really broken and people keep saying that the hormones will come, but I know i dont want to ever have sex. Its all very confusing... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jea Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 Although, as always, you're the only one who can chose a label for yourself, from what you're describing, you sound like you're on the asexual spectrum. I've heard of many asexuals who get aroused, watch porn, fantasise etc. I'm afraid I can't help much with the rest of your post but I thought I'd answer the little I could. On another note, welcome to AVEN! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kimmie. Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 Hi What i understand is that the only thing that really matter is that you don´t desire sex with anyone. And as Owlet said you are the only one that can label yourself. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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