Sex-Repulsed or Erotophobia (Potential TMI)

[The Lonely Hug Monster]

I am lost. Sexual behavior that I sometimes see in movies or anime makes me irritable (I don't know when it will come up)

Particularly, seeing someone get licked/French kissed just makes me think, "how is this not bizarre to other people?" Do normal sex partners do that?

Also, the mere idea of penetrating has always sounded strange to me, even to imagine.

Moans also give off an odd vibe of intimidation.

Flirty talking is scary.

Can anyone relate?

[Tyger Songbird]

No, I can relate to you. I definitely have felt the same way about like french kissing and licking stuff. It's not my sense of pleasance, honestly. Icky. I don't think you are alone on any of this, especially as I have felt the same way that you do. Honestly, it's a bit triggering all of it, and I don't like to deal with that dimension really. Even though my body can still experience like arousal and that arousal be manifested in "male fashion" out of a combination of factors like fear, I do get weirded out by all of that stuff. You are not the only one who gets intimidated by sex stuff. I am one in the same. So, don't feel left out.

[masterplan]

Yeah, I know the feeling too. The first moans I ever heard in my life came from my neighbor's bedroom. Even though my mind thought that it was just inconsiderate to be so noisy so late at night and I tried to just move on with my life, the fear increased until I started to shake and cry. The first times I heard it were okay, the next couple of times my fear only became worse and worse. I still have no idea why I respond in this way, because there seems no reason to. I cannot control it. Whenever I see couples in public areas I always get afraid that they will get intimate (I've seen it happen a couple of times). Whenever my neighbor's house is filled with mixed men/women it starts again. The same with movies. I absolutely hate this useless fear, but to me it feels impossible to get rid of.

[The Lonely Hug Monster]

Thanks for the replies. It still hurts to feel that what some find physically positive feels like a threat to me.

[LittleBrownSparrow]

I can relate. I've had many otherwise good shows ruined for me because of French kissing, licking and making out. I've always found it gross and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. So I get what you mean. I find kissing disgusting.

I can relate. I've had many otherwise good shows ruined for me because of French kissing, licking and making out. I've always found it gross and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. So I get what you mean. I find kissing disgusting.

[Esper]

While my mind usually just try to blot over most sexual stuff, because it is so incredible boring to me, french kissing is something I really dislike.

(I can't help, but think everything I see it. How do they fit both tongue in such an incredbile small place and then I get gagging reflexes at the thought. Because ew!)