jehan_osamahasan Posted July 13, 2016 Share Posted July 13, 2016 Look... When I was 12, I had crushes... That might be romantic. I got sexually attracted to people... I might've watched porn.. Later on, I realized I was asexual. Did I turn asexual and sexuality is fluid? Or I was always asexual but didn't know (because heterosexuality is the social standard) Currently... I only have squishes and very rarely... And I don't get attracted sexually to people.... Sex scenes repulse me..and I'm not interested in sex at all... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lucas Leal Posted July 13, 2016 Share Posted July 13, 2016 sexuality really is fluid, you may be asexual always, but you just didn't realize it. If you don't get attracted sexually to people, that's a signal that you may be asexual. I hope i've helped you :) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Splatacus Posted July 13, 2016 Share Posted July 13, 2016 Honestly could've been either way. Many people see it as fluid. There are people on AVEN who have always felt the same and didn't know for sure what was going on until they found the word for it. Similarly, there are people who used to be sexually attracted to people, but now aren't. At the end of the day it doesn't make much difference, and only you can decide how to label yourself :) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Queen of Wonderland Posted July 13, 2016 Share Posted July 13, 2016 I wouldn't worry too much about it, if I were you. Some people would tell you yeah its fluid, you changed, others would tell you you've been ace all along. Its not that big of a deal, really; you know who you are now, and that's all I would be concerned about now. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted July 13, 2016 Share Posted July 13, 2016 Asexuality and aromanticism are two different things. If you don't have crushes anymore then you may be aromantic as well. It is rare, but some people can end up turning asexual/aromantic. Sexuality/romanticism CAN be fluid but it isn't for most people. Oh, but to be sure, when you say sexual attraction you mean the impulse to have sex with someone specific, right? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MrDane Posted July 13, 2016 Share Posted July 13, 2016 When you are developing from being a child and into becomming an adult, many things change. this is why, no child should decide its path of life, but instead keep all doors open! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
thatoneowl Posted July 14, 2016 Share Posted July 14, 2016 I feel like sexuality is a pretty fluid thing, with everything else in your life it can change as you get older. You may have been ace all along and the initial curiosity of sex kept you interested, or maybe you just changed. Its not really something to sweat over to be honest. Just enjoy your life <3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Propper Techie Posted July 15, 2016 Share Posted July 15, 2016 I'm like you, however with me sex has always repulsedme even when I got with a guy and finally did it at 27, still repulsed me. sex scenes repulse/d me ditto when I read books and they go into detail about it, I skip those parts! however nowadays I only have the occasional squishes, like for example was sat opposite a guy on bus yesterday with johnny depp brown eyes, cue stares! but wouldn't of done more - maybe got a drink - :p but nothing else! from reading around on here what we 'have/get' seems 'normal' and its down to what we label ourselves after all Barbra on The Royle Family sums it up 'gay, straight or Australian it's what they're like as a person!' :p Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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