AVEN #1 fan Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 Sometimes i wonder if the fact of being trans and feeling dysphoria over my genitals actually contributed to the fact of me feeling no sexual desires and no desires for masturbation. And genitals also gross me out, even my genitals gross me out. Anybody feels the same? Is anybody grossed out of their genitals or genitals over all? Are ypu Asexual cos you're ashamed of having sex or of your genitals? Do ypu think my asexuality is related to my trans condition? I just started to wonder right now, maybe i would have been allosexual if i was born the way i wanted. If you have a very small penis, a large clitoris, 2 penises, 2 vulvas, nothing btw your legs or an intersex condition or any other genital abnormality or even if you're circumsized or feel bad abput your body appearence, do you think it's somehow related to the fact of you being Asexual or sex repulsed (apothisexual)? If you are apothisexual or asexual, why do you think so? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 I don't think it's a reason. There are different kinds of trans people- hetero, homo, bi, pansexual ones. Yes, most of trans people feel bad about their genitals but I don't think it's connected to asexuality. It's just their feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
Evren Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 I have wondered this. Because I can imagine myself having sex as a man with a penis, when I am completely unable of imagining my self having sex right now. However I don't know if I would be sexual or if I would just be more comfortable overall, and that comfort would contribute to the idea of having sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 21, 2016 Share Posted June 21, 2016 Yes, I've often wondered that about myself, too. If I had been born female-bodied, there is a definite chance I would have been just a simple, sexual Lesbian. I can't tell, and won't speculate, how high that chance is - but I'm certain it's not zero. There is considerable collusion between my gender issues, dysphoria, repulsion, and asexuality, even though I wouldn't go so far as to say these caused my asexuality - I remember too clearly my reaction of "I'll never ever do that!!!" when first hearing about sex, around kindergarden/elementary age, which I don't remember other kids my age showing; whereas the gender dysphoria only became really noticeable for me around puberty. Link to post Share on other sites
Nuage Posted June 22, 2016 Share Posted June 22, 2016 I've also wondered about that. I'm strongly repulsed by genitals, mine and others'. I've often had doubts - if my body had been different, would my sexuality be different as well? I find it unlikely, but not impossible. But there's a difference between "being more comfortable with sex" and "being sexual". I think that, if I had a different body, I would be more comfortable with sex, but I wouldn't necessarily want it. Does that make any sense? Link to post Share on other sites
Anthracite_Impreza Posted June 22, 2016 Share Posted June 22, 2016 For me personally, no. I want to be devoid of sex organs entirely, and as such devoid of sex entirely. Link to post Share on other sites
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