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For those of us who masturbate...


Mike_Rophone

For those of us who masturbate...  

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  1. 1. Why?

    • Feels good
      103
    • To help me sleep
      45
    • Relieve stress
      65
    • Libido forces me
      67
    • Other(Feel free to comment)
      17
  2. 2. What do you use?

    • Porn
      77
    • Celebrities
      13
    • Attractive people I know
      15
    • Nothing, the touch is enough
      59
    • Other(Feel free to comment)
      65
  3. 3. If you could completely control when you wanted to masturbate, would you?

    • Yes, the urge can be annoying sometimes!
      63
    • No, it isn't really a problem
      74
    • Other(Feel free to comment)
      13


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champagnerain

For the last question...I actually feel like I do completely control when I want to masturbate. It's always been a totally intellectual decision for me (usually, "I'm bored/curious/would like to feel good for a bit"). That said, I've got no libido to speak of. I don't believe I've ever masturbated because I actually had a physical need for it.

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HeatherGrace

Why?

Mostly bc libido, though I don't feel the need to that often, and maybe I would more but it's so difficult for me to be aroused on my own.

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I use porn mostly, although as a writer and avid roll-player sometimes the act of writing something or reading something will do the trick.
Watching porn is quite weird though as I am quite repulsed by the thought of it its stimulating and gets the job done, oddly though sounds seem to rile me up more as I'm more an aural person most of the time which is why reading or writing any kind of smut hardly ever gets me.

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I do masturbate but I have no libido. I don't ever feel like I need to. I just do it out of boredom. I get easily bored at night and it gives me something to do for half an hour. I do watch porn, but not because I desire to watch sex. It just gives me something to watch to help with the boredom and I like looking at aesthetically attractive people. I like to look at a person's curves and cute faces. My depression also gets worse at night so it helps me reduce my depression at night by keeping my mind off other things.

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Pretty sure this contains TMI!

Why?

Sometimes because the pressure makes me feel like I need to, and sometimes because I'm bored and I'm wanting something to do. If it's a time when I feel like I need to then I CAN cancel it out for a little while (usually) and focus on something else, but it always comes back within a couple of hours, so best to get it over with that way I can concentrate. When I am bored, though, I usually try to avoid masturbating because those sessions are so blagh. If I'm going to do it, I want it to be passionate. Otherwise it just feels, I don't know . . . too "lazy?"

Anyway, for that I chose "it feels good," "my libido forces me," and "other."

What do you use?

Various porn stuff, mostly. Usually I go straight to erotica, some sex forums to read the threads, etc. I have much better orgasms when I'm reading, but there are still times when I'll watch videos and look at pictures to switch things up. Fantasies can also work for me, though I usually use them as "foreplay" (not the best thing to call it, I know, but I believe I'm making sense) before I actually get onto the masturbation itself.

When it does come to my fantasies, I usually use myself and/or fictional characters. I actually have used a person in my head for masturbation before whom I was aesthetically and romantically attracted to, but it was pretty obvious to me that I wouldn't want it to actually happen in real life. Because that's only been one time, and I'm only likely to do that if I'm seriously talking to someone, I just chose "porn" and "other" for this question.

If you could completely control when you wanted to masturbate, would you?

Hmm . . . yeah, I guess I would. Since I can actually really, really enjoy masturbating, I don't mind it as much as other asexuals do. Maybe if my libido never came up at all, I just wouldn't bother with it. Or maybe I would, if I was with someone and masturbation was some way or another to compromise. Anyway, yeah, I guess I would!

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Why?

I guess in the beginning it was about my libido. I was a teen, but later it became more of creating the perfect scenario in my head.

Sometimes the scenario is kinky, romantic or pure fantasy.

For me it's an excuse to feel something I know I won't feel in real life.

What do you use?

I do use porn on occasion because I get lazy in creating a good story line.

Although sometimes it can take forever with porn as well.

Celebrities and attractive people I know is also fun because in some cases the story I create can romantic, or feel like it could really happen.

I also enjoy reading really good erotic fiction.

If you could completely control when you wanted to masturbate, would you?

This has never really been a problem for me.

I once quit for about 9 months, and I was in terrific shape at the time. Lol

Now I guess I use it to deal with the occasional feeling of loneliness.

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