indiangirl Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Hi All, I am a 26 year old girl from India. I never had a relationship till I was 25. I always thought that I was too choosy and that is why I was single. Its not like I never wanted a relationship. I wanted a fairy tale romance but sex was never a part of it. In fact I never thought of sex ever. Last year I got into a relationship. He was very patient for a long time but one day it had to happen. He said he thinks I am not into him physically. But that was not the case, I am just not into physical relationships altogether. After this break up, I got completely lost in life. That is how I ended up here on this forum. Since I am an Indian girl, here it is not easy to choose your own life. My parents are looking for a 'suitable' groom for me. I am scared. Its not that I don't want a relationship but I want only the emotional parts of the relationship. It is something difficult to find but are there any suggestions?? If there is a way? Link to post Share on other sites
damage_case Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 Hi All, I am a 26 year old girl from India. I never had a relationship till I was 25. I always thought that I was too choosy and that is why I was single. Its not like I never wanted a relationship. I wanted a fairy tale romance but sex was never a part of it. In fact I never thought of sex ever. Last year I got into a relationship. He was very patient for a long time but one day it had to happen. He said he thinks I am not into him physically. But that was not the case, I am just not into physical relationships altogether. After this break up, I got completely lost in life. That is how I ended up here on this forum. Since I am an Indian girl, here it is not easy to choose your own life. My parents are looking for a 'suitable' groom for me. I am scared. Its not that I don't want a relationship but I want only the emotional parts of the relationship. It is something difficult to find but are there any suggestions?? If there is a way? First off... welcome. Im 28 years old male. Never interacted with women... never interested in pouncing on women when I see them in broad daylight. You shouldnt get into relationships that force you to change. I am a romantic so I might end up marrying one day... but that would be a nightmare. Be proud of who you are. My personal inbox is always open. Remember that AVEN forums messenger are very lagging n slow so I usually talk on google hangouts with my friends from here. I only have a mother so shes 'inching' towards the marriage thing. But forget sex, I cant even deliver the basic requirements to marriage... since marriage in India is a business transaction. Its tough in India to discuss this pre-marriage... but life takes numerous twists n turns... maybe you'll find someone who wants just that. Be happy n optimistic. Link to post Share on other sites
VBA Posted May 6, 2016 Share Posted May 6, 2016 dont worry too much. keep in touch with those with whom you are comfortable. share your likings or dislikings. you may be able to strike a chord of relationship with one or the other. i am not saying that you should look for such relations desperately. first of all you can establish friendhsip for chatting and sharing. all the best, vijay mysore Link to post Share on other sites
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