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Someone like/hate you, but that person is hiding it.


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AVEN Census to admittance of being liked/hated  

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  1. 1. If a person truly liked you very much, and that person is hiding it, would you want that person to admit it?

    • Yes, I would
      63
    • Depends on the said person
      35
    • Nope
      10
    • I never been liked, so uh, what are you talking about again? AKA "Other option"
      7
  2. 2. If a person truly hated you very much, and that person is hiding it, would you want that person to admit it?

    • Yes, I would
      60
    • Depends on the said person
      36
    • Nope
      17
    • I never been hated, so uh, what are you talking about again? AKA "Other option"
      2

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I would want said person to admit it either way because then there would be finality and closure... not some weird in limbo type deal.

I'm actually going through this now and the person is being really shady. Like grow up and just tell me. I really don't care either way.

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I'd say yes to both.

To the first, I'd probably find it flattering, whether or not I cared to reciprocate. Most of the time, I think it's nice to be liked.

To the second... I'd generally want to know if someone actually hates me, especially if it's someone I know and/or likely have to associate with regularly. I had a very dear friend (well, I suppose, ex-friend at this point) who never finished an argument with me, and hasn't said a word for nearly 2 years. I'm well past the point of imagining we could ever repair the friendship. I'd simply like to know whether or not they hate my guts, and it's really killing me that they won't even tell me that.

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If like means romantically, I'd rather they keep it to themselves so I don't have to deal with the burden of feeling awkward and disappointing them. If like means "I really respect/admire you", I'd be happy to know that! :D

And no for hate, because I'd be scared and sad to know someone hated me. Some people have more respect for people that are open about their hateful opinions because "At least they're honest", but I'd rather they pretend to get along with me than admit it. In the process of faking treating me with basic human decency, they might actually find out their first impressions of me were wrong, since it's common for people to say things like "At first I didn't like you, but when I got to know you more I changed my mind". And even if they don't, I'd still rather they just talk about me behind my back than yell in my face.

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