Reset Posted May 8, 2016 Share Posted May 8, 2016 I've never kissed and I don't want to. Maybe a tongueless one would be okay, but I'd rather not exchange germs with anyone ever. Hugs are fine, and all I want in my mouth is cake. I like to imagine myself in my sixties as a cackling, tea-drinking, and a virgin in every way. People might accuse me of being an ice queen or whatever, but hey, I think snow is very pretty and summer is overrated. Link to post Share on other sites
Hermit Advocate Posted May 9, 2016 Share Posted May 9, 2016 Just throwing this out there. Kissing with tongue is gross. That's my opinion on the matter and I stand by it. Link to post Share on other sites
LadyPariah Posted May 9, 2016 Share Posted May 9, 2016 I'm sorry that your first experience was gross, when I was 12, I was still building tree forts and thought boys were icky, so I can't imagine how that must have felt. My first kiss was when I was 17, and I was dating a genderfluid bisexual guy, which was the only great things about him. When he first tried to kiss me, I turned my head away. It just felt weird having someone that close to my face. The next time, he succeeded, but turned out to be a terrible kisser. He pretty much mashed his face into mine, which really hurt my neck and even my teeth. I have no idea what he was trying to do, but it was not something I was expecting. My next boyfriend was a much better kisser, but I was not a fan of playing the whole tongue octopus thing, and he sometimes bit my lips way too hard, like he had skipped lunch. I would have enjoyed it more had he not been a jerk all around. I don't think kissing is for everyone, especially if you don't like someone touching you, or have a strict personal space. It's more of a way to get emotionally closer to your significant other, and some scientists even say it helps people read each other's genetics o.O Which makes it sound totally creepy. Link to post Share on other sites
Whispearl Posted May 9, 2016 Share Posted May 9, 2016 See, my first kiss was okay. It was with a guy I really liked and thought was cute (and out of my league), and he initiated it, which made me feel real good. But the kiss itself? Again, he started it, and I wasn't quite expecting it, so I rolled with it. It felt a bit weird. Thankfully, no tongue. And I never found out if I was any good at it. I mean, we kissed a few more times after that before things ended, so it couldn't have been terrible. But it's still so weird to me, that I still feel like there's a "right" way to do it that I never quite got. Basically, my first kiss was pretty great, but kissing in general still confuses me, and I can't even think about kissing someone other than that first boyfriend because it's that weird. Link to post Share on other sites
Tanzanite Posted May 9, 2016 Share Posted May 9, 2016 I doubt this counts since it was Kindergarten and nobody was thinking of romance and stuff like that, but looking back at it, it was...meh. No impact whatsoever. I don't think I even remember his name. However, if that doesn't count, I haven't had a real kiss yet. Link to post Share on other sites
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