What do you think about sex when you're drunk?

[yomo]

I pretty much just want to go to bed :P so I feel the same about it really. I'm not much of a drinker regardless.

[Busrider]

"mmm -yezZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ" (with the "Z" turning capital towards the end of foreplay).

[Still]

Does nothing to change my lack of desire.

[paperwishes]

I like making out when I'm drunk. Well, I like it when I'm sober too, but drunk me really likes it and will happily make out with anyone where as sober me just likes imagining making out with anyone, lol.

This is me haha. I've gotten to the point where I don't trust myself drunk, I am way too friendly and open to just kissing people, holding people's hands, hugging everyone. Once I was convinced monogamy was bullshit and we should all just love everyone. I made out with everyone at that party.

[spurgle]

When I'm drunk I'm more inclined to actually speak to people other than my friends and occasionally get the desire to make out with said friends, but as for sex... Nope. The only time I've had sex was when I was drunk and even though it was with my girlfriend of that time, I still woke up feeling dirty and violated.

[Salted Karamel]

If I'm already attracted to someone, being intoxicated will make me want to have sex with them more.

Intoxication will not make me attracted to strangers or anyone else I am not already attracted to.

However, if I am trying to force myself to have sex with someone I'm not necessarily attracted to, drinking makes it easier.

As for your issue, it sounds like you're not actually hooking up with people— just kind of posturing? Saying you would and probably acting sexual and that sort of thing. You seem quite young—assuming you're one of the girls in your avatar pic there—so it could be that drinking makes you less inhibited from wanting to appear to be this sort of person that you think is cool and/or sexy and/or desirable? In other words, it's not so much that drinking makes you want sex, but that drinking makes you want to try on this costume of a sexual person that your sober inhibitions keep you from dabbling with normally.