ARMcF Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 I have been trying for a few years now to find an asexual partner; gender does not matter. I cannot find anyone who wants to talk, or even have a conversation?! Are their any other asexuals seeking a relationship? Maybe we could talk? Or maybe someone can suggest something I could do to increase my chances of someone actually keeping a conversation with me! Link to post Share on other sites
Ace of Amethysts Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 I don`t care whether they`re romantic or not, just want to find another ace IRL :/ Link to post Share on other sites
ARMcF Posted February 8, 2016 Author Share Posted February 8, 2016 I would rather talk to a more romantic asexual than a sexual one, like grey-ace, but i get whatcha mean because i would really like to find another asexual to date or talk to :/ Link to post Share on other sites
Siimo van der fietspad Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 Well, there are meetups organised between AVEN members. Have a look at the relevant sub-forum. Of course, this is easier if you live near a large urban area than out in the sticks. Perhaps we should all take our summer holiday to the same place at the same time this year? Link to post Share on other sites
ARMcF Posted February 8, 2016 Author Share Posted February 8, 2016 That would be cool to have just one huuuuge meet up! I think that would be kinda hard though with people that live in different countries and or states haha I live in Ohio and i havent found anybody thats asexual that lives in Ohio or close to it. Link to post Share on other sites
arthurh Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 So... A girl in my class last wednesday had a black ring, on her middle finger, and on her right hand. I ended up asking her at the end if it was an ace ring and she ended up looking at me as if I was stupid. So I have a feeling the rest of this semester will be awkward. Anyways careful or you might end up looking dumb like me XD. Link to post Share on other sites
ARMcF Posted February 8, 2016 Author Share Posted February 8, 2016 Haha well thats not good! I dont blame you for asking though!! Thats what a black ring on the middle finger means so you werent in the wrong! But i do agree that would be a bit embarrassing and awkward!! Link to post Share on other sites
Starlit Sky Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 Well . . . if you're just really wanting to talk to another asexual person, then AVEN is a decent place to start. You could always just try to strike up a conversation, but I wouldn't start it off with wanting to date. Actually get to know the person, and then if you want to see about dating then maybe something can work out. :) Link to post Share on other sites
SquidKen Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 I feel ya man, I've never met an asexual in person. I hope to one day, that's awesome. I'm starting to think this is just an elaborate dream and really alone I'm XD Link to post Share on other sites
lolo Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 I'd love to meet another ace in the wilds too, totes getting me one of those black rings! Link to post Share on other sites
lost_oneironaut Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 I've never been in a relationship but I've always wanted to know what it's like to be in one- I definitely prefer that my first relationship (whether queerplatonic or romantic) be with another ace. But what I've realized is that it's hard enough trying to find someone who's compatible (mentally, personality, etc -wise) let alone asexual, too. *sigh* Link to post Share on other sites
Fjording Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 Funny story: I met an ace in the wild - and didn’t even know until months later. I started working with this guy about a year ago. Due to the nature of our jobs I didn’t see him that often, but I took special note of him, because he was kinda fascinating and always a pleasure to work with. Then a few months later I’m randomly texting with him, and he asks what I’m up to. For some reason, I straight up tell him I’m browsing AVEN. Don’t know what I was thinking. Maybe that since this was a new friend, no history between us, no expectations; I’d take a chance and just be upfront about everything. What happens next I will never forget. Not only is he familiar with AVEN, he’s another bona fide ace. I had no idea; I could never have guessed. I actually had to get up and walk around a bit, I remember my heart was just pounding like crazy. It was such a surprise for the both of us; he didn't have a clue about me either. Just thinking about it still puts a huge grin on my face :D I can’t get over the fact that I have a friend now, who’s just naturally part of all this. Anyway, here's my point: There are so many more of us out there. People that either aren’t out, or aren’t aware yet. So don’t give up on finding someone, though it may seem a little hopeless. Keep looking, and keep taking chances :) Link to post Share on other sites
Nea Rose Symphony Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 I don`t care whether they`re romantic or not, just want to find another ace IRL :/I feel the same wayOP: I'd be willing to be good friends Link to post Share on other sites
Rainbow~Sprinkles Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 Have you tried Ace-book? I'm not sure how active its members are but most people are looking for a relationship on there. I live in Brisbane, Australia which is practically a dead end yet there were heaps of members on there. It might be a good place to start ^_^ Also, keep posting on AVEN, you'll meet people who are similar minded and have similar ideas to you. Then start talking to them online. That's who I met some people on here. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseja1987 Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 We need an Ace-con in the Michigan/Ohio area. I'm not kidding. Let's make this happen. Link to post Share on other sites
hereforareason Posted April 5, 2016 Share Posted April 5, 2016 Hi, I am an heteroromantic asexual single man from. It would be wonderful connect. Please message Cheers Link to post Share on other sites
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