Imerza Posted July 16, 2016 Share Posted July 16, 2016 Hi, I'm almost 15, a female, and am still questioning(not sure if im gray a or asexual). I also have absolutely no idea what my romantic orienatation is. I'm really happy I found this thread, for a while I was worried there was no one else my age. Link to post Share on other sites
idontlikethepublic Posted July 28, 2016 Share Posted July 28, 2016 Hi my name is Frasier, i'm 18 and im from arkansas. ive joined this website because i was a little unclear on my sexuality. i have had sex before (with both genders) and i was just unsure of it. im not sure how much i would really like to do it again. then it occured to me that i may be asexual, so i did some research and i believe i fall under the grey category. i joined this website to further explore and possibly confirm my asexuality. thank you all for having me Link to post Share on other sites
Guest 00--00 Posted July 30, 2016 Share Posted July 30, 2016 Hey guys! I'm Nicole 19 years old, from Jersey (yes, Joysie) I am currently still sifting through identities and trying to self reflect to see what suits me best! Here's what I know: I am pan sexual, but have had only male intercourse. I am Asexual but am somewhat sex repulsed... Although because i do suffer from Bi-Polar disorder, occasionally I do feel as if I am sexually attracted to specific people (typically whoever I find aesthetically pleasing). Hope to fully self-identify soon! Link to post Share on other sites
Linx Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Hi I'm a 19 years old male from the UK Feel the teenage years are the worst time to be gray ace with horomones and all so think this thread is a great idea! Have had mini crushes on women before but only if I am really good friends with them and they go after 3 days max (yeah really odd) so think I might be demisexual but not sure. Also I think because of being a gray ace, I seem to have more confidence in speaking to women than the average hetrosexual man because I'm not thinking of them in that way and so my female friends see me as there "gay friend" which I am ok with as it means that there is no sexual tension Hope I can contribute something to the discussions! Link to post Share on other sites
rynk Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Nice to meet you, I'm 17 and female. I'm asexual and most likely biromantic. I'm honestly kinda lost because I don't have anyone who I can talk to this about in my life, so I was glad that there are other people who might be able to understand. Link to post Share on other sites
coolkid1227 Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 I'm 13 and female, and I'm not sure what I identify with. I never had crushes when I was younger and I never (and still don't!) understood celebrity and sports figure crushes. I also have a few questions. I like pairing people/fictional characters together- like in a ship. Is that normal? And also, can I still be in a relationship even if I'm asexual or Grey-A? I'm feeling confused and would appreciate some answers. Thanks! ^_^ Also, thanks to whoever made this thread--- it's nice to have people to talk to about this. I'm 13 and female, and I'm not sure what I identify with. I never had crushes when I was younger and I never (and still don't!) understood celebrity and sports figure crushes. I also have a few questions. I like pairing people/fictional characters together- like in a ship. Is that normal? And also, can I still be in a relationship even if I'm asexual or Grey-A? I'm feeling confused and would appreciate some answers. Thanks! ^_^ Also, thanks to whoever made this thread--- it's nice to have people to talk to about this. Link to post Share on other sites
Imerza Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Yeah, I'm pretty sure shipping fictional characters is normal. You can also be in a relationship if you're gray-a or asexual. Gray-a's and asexuals can be in sexual relationships (there could be a compromise) or they could be in a romantic or queer platonic relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 18 and gray. I don't really have a need for labels beyond that. I have a low libido and really my only interest in sex stems from curiosity. Link to post Share on other sites
Cookieofdeath01 Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 Hi I'm a 15 year old male. I still can't tell if I'm ace or grey-ace, and I'm also aro. I'm new to this website, and it's nice to see a thread for teens. Link to post Share on other sites
Celandine Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 15 and grey-a Link to post Share on other sites
PixieCat Posted November 6, 2016 Share Posted November 6, 2016 17 year old female and still trying to figure out my identity. I don't really know yet if I'm ace, demi, gray-a, or something else, and it makes me feel better to see people my age who are struggling with the same problem :) It's hard to find teens in the asexual community. Link to post Share on other sites
waffle house Posted November 8, 2016 Share Posted November 8, 2016 I'm Leah! 16 year old girl, somewheeeeeeere on the gray-ace spectrum and demiromantic! ^_^ I also personally identify as straight, since I'm only ever attracted to males. (I guess that means I could pin hetero- onto both of my other two labels but that just seems like a lot of syllables.) Link to post Share on other sites
N/A/N/A Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 Hi! I'm 18 and I'm female - I'm pretty sure I'm either grey-ace or ace (it's very difficult to tell when you're looking for a lack of something) and I'm hetero-romantic, questioning biromantic :) Link to post Share on other sites
erf Posted November 15, 2016 Share Posted November 15, 2016 I'm not grey but I am a 16 year old male aromantic asexual. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueLikeATardis Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 Hi, my name is Lové. I am 17 years old and I am a female. I am pretty sure I fit into the gray-a spectrum. I joined this site because I am very unclear about my sexuality, and so far this site has offered me some clarification so far on who I am. I also wanted to be able to talk to people who could understand where I am coming from without judgment. From what I have gathered so far, I could be a cupiosexual, asexual fetishist (from the Quizzy quiz I saw on here.) lithsexual, post rubor, and fictosexual. They seem to fit pretty well to how I am feeling, but I am looking more into those. Link to post Share on other sites
_V_ Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 Hello. I'm 16, and biologically a male. I prefer not to conform to "manly" expectations, though. I'm demisexual, I prefer females, and I'm currently in a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedBoy Posted December 8, 2016 Share Posted December 8, 2016 Hello! 19, male and grey-ace and hetero or bi romantic. Nice to meet you all x Link to post Share on other sites
Gray-Roses-73 Posted December 10, 2016 Share Posted December 10, 2016 Hello! I am a thirteen year-old male. Thank you for counting the age of thirteen, I often feel left out on here for my young age. Link to post Share on other sites
TheCatBehind Posted January 13, 2017 Share Posted January 13, 2017 Helloooooo, I am 17 and I am somewhere closer to the asexual side of the grey area. Also (probably) demiromantic. I am madly in love with a boy who thinks !'m straight! (I will do something about this, believe you me!) Now, question: how many people know about your sexual orientation? (Include where you come from please) For me one person knew that I wasn't gay or straight till a couple of hours ago, now being a total of three. All of them are LGBTQ+ people. Nobody yet knows that I consider myself being under the asexual umbrella. Link to post Share on other sites
Glaukopis Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 Hey, nice to meet you! I'm 15, female, panromantic, and have just found out that I'm ace, or somewhere on the grey-ace spectrum. I wanted to ask you all a couple of things. First, how can I be sure of whether I'm ace or not? I know I'm a bit young to be certain of my sexuality, but perhaps there are tips you can share with me. Also, I tried to talk about this with my family and friends, but most of them don't see to take it very seriously and are convinced I'm kind of "making it up"... Link to post Share on other sites
Paulina Is A Jellybean Jar Posted January 18, 2017 Share Posted January 18, 2017 Hi! My name is Paulina, I'm 16 and agender-flux. I'm not entirely sure if I'm Gray-A but that's what I identify as currently, it's the best way I can describe how I feel and how I am. I'm still trying to find out who I am.. Link to post Share on other sites
TheCatBehind Posted January 22, 2017 Share Posted January 22, 2017 @NihalSaphira Well, I can't say I am 100% sure of anything, at all, but a defining moment I had was when I was just struck by the fact that /sexy/ photos of people arouse others. (Especially the other guys in my class... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ) Since the provoking photos never had any effect on me I just kinda figured they are something of a past generation or whatever. Nope. They work. (In varying degrees and whatever, of course, but still. They do) I haven't told anyone about me considering myself ace yet so I can't help you there. Link to post Share on other sites
Glaukopis Posted January 22, 2017 Share Posted January 22, 2017 Thank you, Maks. I'm not sure I'll ever have an 'eureka' moment like you did, but hey, everyone's different, right? Link to post Share on other sites
deletedelete Posted January 28, 2017 Share Posted January 28, 2017 - Link to post Share on other sites
jsvailster98 Posted February 20, 2017 Share Posted February 20, 2017 Hey, I'm Josh, I'm 18 and I think I'm somewhere in the grey area, to be honest I'm not entirely sure Link to post Share on other sites
TheNamesVera Posted March 8, 2017 Share Posted March 8, 2017 14 (almost 15) male dysphorasexual, which I believe to be grey-a, and hetromantic; it's kinda weird when guy friends point out sexual pictures or show them to me, I just kinda get uncomfortable so I don't get aroused like my friends do Link to post Share on other sites
im-not-too-sure Posted March 8, 2017 Share Posted March 8, 2017 Ok, so I'm a 15 (almost 16) year old male teen. I'm not sure if I'm really asexual so that's why I'm here. If I'm asexual then I'm definitely heteromantic. The weird thing is that I don't normally feel too attracted to people in a sexual way but as soon as I get to know them that feeling just disappears and doesn't come back. Its pretty much the opposite of demisexual. I'm not too sure what I should think about this or what this would be considered, like is it still asexuality? I've never had sex or even had my first kiss Link to post Share on other sites
Imerza Posted March 12, 2017 Share Posted March 12, 2017 That sounds like fraysexuality, when you're attracted to someone but as you get to know them more, you stop being attracted to them. Link to post Share on other sites
mxlky.way Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 17 and demi-romantic and possible gray (although I think I'm close to ace) but still figuring everything out so not in a rush to label myself (although an identity would be helpful I don't want to stress about it) brand new here Female and uses she/her pronouns Link to post Share on other sites
ryan_ Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 Hey, I'm 13 and probably female but idk... Im gray-a I guess, and bi/panromantic I think but idk Link to post Share on other sites
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