Hstark Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 I am asexual. But only because i don't like how my 'lady parts' look, i am very very uncomfortable with my body. But i love giving pleasure to my partner. I'm a girl and I'm a lesbian, but to me i don't want anyone down there...does anyone else have this problem? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wineblood Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 That doesn't sound like you're asexual, just unhappy with your body. Does you feel like you want to pleasure your partner and are attracted to them? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThaHoward Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 How do not liking how your body look make you asexual? Don't know if I am missing anything. But don't feel bad about how it look, I guess your partner love how it look like :) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nanogretchen4 Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 It sounds like you are "stone." You may not be asexual if you get sexual pleasure from pleasing your partner. Your sexual role preference may not be an actual problem if you and your partner are okay with it. There is such a thing as lesbians who prefer stone partners. If you are experiencing dysphoria that part is a problem. You might want to check out the gender discussion subforum. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Baam Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 Do you mean you don't get sexually attracted to anyone because you don't like how you look down there? Or do you identify as asexual because you don't desire sex? I hate my parts as well (so much so that I would rather have them removed), but I don't think it's the cause of my asexuality. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Shovels Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 I'm a little confused so I'm going to ask a question. So if you had what you deemed were attractive bits &/or body, you would have sex? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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