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How do you feel after masturbating?

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Crace

I feel a vauge contentment where there should be an orgasm, and my body feels relieved. It's fairly pleasant but nothing like my friends have told me they experience.

If I'm watching/reading porn then any interest vanishes right away and if the porn is a bit too... odd, then I'll feel disgusted with myself but I put this down to guilt than anything else, so usually seek out "equal opportunity" porn where no one is being taken advantage of to stop this.

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Lady Bookwyrm

My thoughts are usually along the lines of:

1. Well, I did that.

2. How much time did that take that I could have been using to do something else?

3. Ugggggh, I need a long shower and a complete change of clothes.

Sometimes I'm consoled by the fact that it actually felt really nice, and I feel satisfied. More often it's a sense of "Okay, that was something my body wanted to do, now it's done and hopefully I did it well enough that my body won't bug me about it for awhile."

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float on

I feel a vauge contentment where there should be an orgasm, and my body feels relieved.

I get this sometimes too. where like, there is a change in my emotions and arousal that I'd normally get when I have an orgasm, but there isn't actually an orgasm? that's my favorite. it's very satisfying when that happens.

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Scarlet 

disgusted and gross :x

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Aria Silverfyre

I don't seem to have that much of a libido, so it's usually every few months or so. Afterward it's just... "ok, that's done" and I sometimes feel a little more relaxed but that's really about it. I seem to do it more out of boredom than any sort of actual "need".

Never did understand what people were talking about when they say it's so amazing and such.....

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mori child

I don't really have a libido to speak of, didn't know I could masturbate for a long time. So afterwards it's usually "that was rather a waste of time, probably should have just gone to sleep."

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Capslock Cadet

I only ever do it to fall asleep, honestly. So it's usually just "oh good, done with it", or on rare occasions "that was kinda nice". And... yup, that's about it.

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Zorc

Tired. Vaguely satisfied in that 'cleaning out the pipes' sort of way... Somewhat tingly in certain places. I don't overthink it.

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confusedbat

I would love to be that person who is totally okay and comfortable with sex and masturbation like Ilana Glazer on Broad City, but I'm just not. I have a libido, so if I am being forced to reckon with it, my attitude about it is "let's get this over with as quick as possible." Afterwards there is a sense of relief, but I also just move on to something else and sort of pretend it didn't happen basically. And I am totally grossed out by words like "lube" or "fap". Yeesh. 

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Dudette

Its like taking a shit; huge relief man :D 

 

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will123

Most of the time just relieved other times in tha morning during my shower I feel 'spent' and wish I could go back to bed.

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Hiatus

Accomplished.

 

Thristy, and like a want a snack.

 

Gotta replace those nutrients and fluids :lol:

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Roardova

Appeased, like my life is complete.  Euphoric, mania kind of euphoria.  Thumping waves of pleasure that have my inner smile as lovely as Serinda Swan's.  Wait, let me show you...

 

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will123
2 hours ago, terrance_barnes said:

Appeased, like my life is complete.  Euphoric, mania kind of euphoria.  Thumping waves of pleasure that have my inner smile as lovely as Serinda Swan's.  Wait, let me show you...

 

I think this smile is better:

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SamwiseLovesLife
On 22/03/2017 at 10:24 PM, m_p_w said:

Its like taking a shit; huge relief man :D 

 

This is totally how I feel XD I've once described it to a friend like peeing. Peeing feels nice, It's relieving and It's something I just do when I get the urge, no biggie. I don't sit thinking about it, or get stressed when I haven't needed to in a while (maybe with peeing); It's basically something my body just does and I get some nice soothing feels as a bonus :)

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SamwiseLovesLife
On 19/01/2016 at 11:40 PM, Capslock Cadet said:

I only ever do it to fall asleep, honestly. So it's usually just "oh good, done with it", or on rare occasions "that was kinda nice". And... yup, that's about it.

^ this in a nutshell

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Roardova
25 minutes ago, will123 said:

 

That's the spirit!  That smile is more beautiful cause it's not a joke smile.  I wish Graceland had gotten a fourth season. :(

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Sleighcaptain

Breathless, as I tend to hold my breath towards the end, otherwise no different than before. 

 

Thinks the penis has a mind of its own, separate from the one which controls the rest of the body 

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aeimquy159

Most of the time I feel the same after as before. Occasionally I feel so guilty I can taste it.

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BlueLikeATardis

I always end up feeling exactly the same: bored and dead inside. I honestly can't see the appeal for masturbating.

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yally

Masturbating feels nice while it happens, but only while it happens. After orgasm I usually feel pretty disgusted with myself, like "why does my body want this, this is so nasty." While my body likes the stimulation, and quite frequently craves it, I usually get bored and try to hurry so that I don't have to do it anymore. I usually have to wash my hands a lot or shower afterwards so that all of the physical aftereffects of orgasm and that nasty feeling start to go away. 

 

Another thing that happens is that my body will usually continue to crave stimulation after I orgasm. I'll orgasm, and feel fine for a few minutes but my body seems to want more. By this point, I feel gross, I smell weird, and I'm so bored and uninterested in masturbation that this continued craving for stimulation really messes me up. I just want it to stop. 

 

But yeah, no euphoria or... anything really positive at all, when it comes to orgasm or masturbation. It's a chore. Do people really enjoy it that much? 

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Rhaenys

I feel nothing but strangely it makes listening to music after feel good for some reason.

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MaybeIBelongSomewhere

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Maks9090

Urgh, literally all of the above.

I feel good right at the moment when I come and then immediately I feel bad, a bit disgusted, kinda relieved as well... And my body's been asking for too much recently and I'm in a perpetual cycle of feeling a bit awful, as my mind says "Urgh, not again, please stop." And my body saying "Yessss, I neeeeed it, yesssss."

All in all I've never had serious problems, but recently (past week or two) I have not been feeling great...

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InariYana

I feel a nice bodily tension release and that's it. Just refreshed and relieved. I only do it in the shower :) so it kind of adds to that nice feeling after you had a warm shower. There's nothing in my head usually when I do it, I just concentrate on the sensations and then just get on with my life. I don't feel guilty or disgusted, just relaxed. 

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Deus Ex Infinity

Relieved. Tired. Relaxed. Somehow satisfied. Though I technically don't like the physical urge and need of the act itself.

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Zacharie

For me is like something to make me feel good temporarily. Like the same feeling when you say "today I want something nice. I will buy a slice of cake". Then you proceed to eat it and you enjoy it and it's like not espectacularly good but it's nice. You finish it and enjoy the aftertaste flavor and... that's it. You don't buy cake everyday because is nothing that you consider in your daily diet so you just forget about it. Is more like you appreciated the moment for what it was.

 

When it's because of hormones, it can get very annoying. It can last the whole day if I'm unlucky. And that is when the masturbation process is just a body function. I'm like "are you done yet...". It normally happens at night and out of nowhere.

 

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Grinchmer

"Next."

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Nowhere Girl

Frustrated. Unpleasantly hypersensitive. Immediately afterwards my sexual aversion (which rules out any possibility of having sex, but doesn't extend to fantasies not including me and allows self-pleasuring) expands to disgust over anything sexual.

I have some level of a libido, but I often feel like self-pleasuring is a total waste of time. I honestly think that an orgasm is boring. Not unpleasant, but very far from "earth-shattering". So a part of my frustration is also about my body's inability to achieve anything more intense. Despite having some libido and some sexual imagination, I'm weakly responsive to sexual sensations.

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