HallsiKallsi Posted November 23, 2015 Share Posted November 23, 2015 I don't know if I can póst this but I don't have any other places to look for advice So I had a friend over and we were snuggling and things escalated, Al of a sudden my hand was underneath her bra, then it was in her boobs, I told her to say if she felt uncomfortable,, she replied with "I know", so I then tested it and took her bra off, I saw her boobs, and I looked at her topless and she just looked and smiled, I complemented her boobs, we were Snuffling a little more and my hands were underneath her panties, basically I was fondling her all up, there was only one place I couldn't put my hands on, she was on her period, so maybe she didn't want me to look at my hand with blood on it? Well that doesn't really matter, the point is, am I thinking to much about this or is this a clear sign she wants more than just friendship? She just told me that was the limit, so I that makes me wonder if it is just a thing friends do? Or if there is more than fried ship going on, I'm new to this, help Link to post Share on other sites
.,. Posted November 23, 2015 Share Posted November 23, 2015 Green light dude. Link to post Share on other sites
acidwinter393 Posted November 23, 2015 Share Posted November 23, 2015 Since she was okay with what you described, I would say that she definitely wants to be more than friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Awkward JoJoeh Posted November 23, 2015 Share Posted November 23, 2015 The two of you have officially entered into the territory of Friends With Benefits. You could've also asked this question on Yahoo!Answers and received a helluva lot more opinionated answers than you would here for obvious reasons. If you ask her if she'd want to start dating, there is a chance that she'll accept and say, "Yes". There is also a chance that if you ask her, she will reject you because she doesn't want to be more than what the two of already are. It could be described as these three things: on-and-off sexual relation; no deeply rooted romantic feelings involved; just a boy and a girl experimenting. If you've never seen the movie, "Friends With Benefits" featuring Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis, I'd advise you watch it (not a bad movie considering it's subject topic and the actors) because it'll help give you a good idea what can happen. Not saying that the two of you will realize that you're meant for each other and that you must get married as soon as possible but, it's a start in understanding. Being more than friends (or more than friends-with-benefits) would entitle the two of you to treat each other much differently than you are now. If you don't already, you'll be expected to remember her birthday and on occasion (especially for holidays), buy her gifts. She - the same for you (if you care enough). If you don't already, get to meet her parents/guardians since you'll be spending a majority of time with her both inside and outside the house. The two of you will inevitably move up the sex-ladder (i.e. being completely naked together). I'd like to think that people who are dating one another do it because they care for that other person as a human being and romantically (you think she's beautiful, all you want to do is be with her, etc.) not because they had a heated make out session one night and things must go up from there... Link to post Share on other sites
Chardog Posted November 24, 2015 Share Posted November 24, 2015 Generally people who are "just friends" don't touch each other's "parts"... Just sayin'... Link to post Share on other sites
HallsiKallsi Posted November 24, 2015 Author Share Posted November 24, 2015 What. Do you truly not know the answer to this? I don't, I wasnt Sure since this hasn't happened before Link to post Share on other sites
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