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Happygolucky1

I am 20 year old girl.

I have always liked guys , i had crush on guy ( really huge one) in 10th standard but it was not in sexual way, i loved the idea of looking at him. After that i never liked any guy.

i know that i am into guys.

i have been doing research on Asexuality lately.

I think i might be one.

Reason being

1.i never have sexual attraction

2.I love the idea of holding hands , kissing a guy ( but not in sexual way , what i mean is kiss of cheek or forehead ).

3. when i watch romantic shows or movies, i feel like i want relation like that( everything except sex).

Am i asexual?

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It definitely sounds like you could be, an asexual is defined as someone who doesn't experience sexual attraction and may also have little or no desire for partnered sex.

It depends on whether you want to use that label or not really.

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Awkward JoJoeh

Really, only you can answer and decide this because you know yourself better than any of us. Better than any of your friends or family because they're not watching you 24 hours/7 days a week.

But, from the details you've given us so far, there is a chance that you may be Asexual.

I highly recommend checking out the link I provided. It will direct you to the AVEN Wiki page which has a ton of useful information for beginners (like yourself) and experts alike. :cake:http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Main_Page :cake:

To tell you the truth, I've stumbled upon a very broad range of sexual and romantic orientations that you may or may not find listed on the Wiki page. It's astounding to me how many there are! I swear there is something to describe every sort of human being who has ever existed on this planet. Ever. Even the ones we don't know about yet...

I can't for the life of me remember the word but it was an orientation that other's advise against labelng yourself as. Nothing illegal, don't worry.

Welcome to AVEN, too! Would you rather have a piece of delicious, mouth-moistening, eye-watering because that first forkful is just too good, cake? Or would you rather have something else instead?

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Hello, and welcome to AVEN!! :cake: :cake:

Although it's not up to me to decide your orientation, it does sound like you could be asexual. I usually define asexuality as a lack of sexual attraction and/or a lack of desire for partnered sex, which means being attracted to guys in other ways does not exclude you from being on the asexual spectrum. It sounds like what you're experiencing is probably romantic attraction, which can be a totally separate thing. :)

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I define "asexuality" as "no desire for partnered sex." Other possible definitions are "an enduring lack of sexual desire for others" as well as "an enduring lack of sexual inclinations/feelings towards others." Basically, an "asexual" person isn't drawn towards sexual interaction with others. Beyond that, it varies from person to person, regardless of sexual orientation.

Welcome to AVEN! :cake:

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