RustlerOfJimmies Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 I'm very new and hope to solve my confusion. I feel like I don't want sex or a relationship but I don't want to be left out (I'm a 9th grader). I decided to come here in hopes of fitting in. *confused Link to post Share on other sites
BadWolfGallifrey Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 Hi! Welcome to AVEN! I'm sure you'll fit in fine. If chat isn't too hectic, it's a good place to find people to talk to, at least in my opinion. I'm not sure I could be of much help but I'm in 11th grade and felt the same as you my freshman year. Link to post Share on other sites
Kysien Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 That's how I feel as an Ace man. We are different but we want to be accepted. You came to the right place though. If you ever want someone to talk to I'm here! Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Girl Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 Hi and welcome! This is a good place to make some new friends and feel supported too. I'm glad you joined and hope you love being part of this awesome community.!!! :) Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 If you don't want a romantic relationship then that's aromantic; different from asexual which strictly pertains to sex. 15 is normally the late bloomer end mark so you can certainly know your orientation as a freshman. Being different can certainly make you feel segragated, but you shouldn't be ashamed of it because there are many like you on this website; there's nothing wrong with your orientation. Many aromantics desire a non-romantic partnership and can be satisfied with friends, close friends, best friends, or a queerplatonic relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
kelico Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! Take all the time you need in exploring the site and also exploring yourself! We have our whole lives to go on this self-discovery, but it's great to have a head-start like you are now! : ) You'll find other members that can relate to you (and that are around your age), and you'll learn a lot here. If you have any questions, feel free to ask! We're here to help. Best wishes! Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 Hello and welcome. AVEN is a great place to become more comfortable and less confused with asexuality. Stick around :) Link to post Share on other sites
Agent Rainbow Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! I'm a freshman too, so I know how you feel. We have a thread for teens on the forums called "Asexy a Teens", I suggest you look at that to find people like you. Have some cake! 🎂🍰🍰 Link to post Share on other sites
lina-gray Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 welcome! i am also new and i was confused for years but now i know!! :) you will find here the answers you want and you will find friends to talk and share your thoughts you see we are many people like you and here we understand each other! enjoy your stay here! Link to post Share on other sites
Nicnac Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 Welcome to AVEN, I am still confused and looking for answers about how I feel, this is a great place to talk to others, to ask questions and have questions answered :-D Link to post Share on other sites
SkyWorld Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 Hullo, nice to meet you and welcome to AVEN! :cake: I'm glad that you have decided to join and thank you for introducing yourself. A lot of people here can relate to you and it's pretty awesome to know that there's a whole community of people who can understand each other and know that we are not alone. I hope you enjoy it here and... more cake! Link to post Share on other sites
Midnight Star Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 Welcome to AVEN Verao1917 The best advice I can give towards solving your confusion is that you should take your time. Also do not feel like once you define yourself that you need to stick to that label. We humans are dynamic beings. It's okay to change. Personally when labeling myself, I define my identity based on what my current understanding of myself is. If I change or learn something new about myself, then I simply change the label. Hope you have fun here :) Link to post Share on other sites
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