chair jockey Posted October 5, 2015 Share Posted October 5, 2015 I've found what is, for me, a brand new way to deal with unwanted sexual arousal: fantasize about refusing sex! This time I chose a really aesthetically appealing woman from my past who had seriously pissed me off in non-sexual ways, and imagined me saying No to her. The arousal totally went away! Just sharing this in case it helps someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
aventura Posted October 5, 2015 Share Posted October 5, 2015 I also consider myself a minimal libidoist, but my arousal is usually so insignificant that anything will distract me from it, literally. I'm not even sure if it is arousal, but I will definitely keep that in mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted October 7, 2015 Share Posted October 7, 2015 We're Aces, just think of cake. Seriously though I find thinking of something spectacularly unerotic such as a boring book works Link to post Share on other sites
Artistofnoname Posted October 8, 2015 Share Posted October 8, 2015 Just turn it into nothing but a joke Link to post Share on other sites
Sutaomiiru Posted October 8, 2015 Share Posted October 8, 2015 I get rid of my morning b****s by either thinking about aesthetically attractive things/characters, or by listening to music. I find it amusing that I probably am doing the opposite of what allosexuals do. Link to post Share on other sites
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